Cant afford to go back to work after having Twins!

real1314

If you give people an idea of what your hubby earns and your household income, people might be able to suggest how much / what sort of help you could get??

Otherwise people are being left to give speculative advice that is likely to be irrelevant.

emar

I havent actually spoken to my mum for 10yrs... we fell out... Hard to speak to the woman actually... Hubby says i should get to know her more....
Lot of water under bridge,,,
Been on my own a while,.. If she came to live with me it would mean that alwful thing...Atonement....
So thats why i say no living family

blue_haddock

emar wrote: »

Tell me .. would you consider abortion after being told that you would never
have kids?
Plus to me abortion is never on my list... its not right!

What is your fascination with abortion? no-one on this thread has mentioned it and yet you'ved brought it up and on your other thread you keep going on about it and the way the bank treated you.

Like others have said - i smell a big fat hairy troll.

emar

I none what so ever.. but that is what a bank told me to have after asking for help..
But that has nothing to do with asking for advice about going back to work or this thread you moron,,
For gods sake,, i have come on here to ask for advice on other people who have had kids and what they did about going back to work and those who cannot afford it...
Is that so much to ask? ..
I have found many people on here so negagtive...
Quite a few of you wait for people like me to come on asking for help
and you jump on with your criticism

All those lady's that have helped and who have also got children,, many thanks to you .. im sure you understand what it is like to be stuck between a rock and a hard place!

dmg24

emar wrote: »

I none what so ever.. but that is what a bank told me to have after asking for help..
But that has nothing to do with asking for advice about going back to work or this thread you moron,,
For gods sake,, i have come on here to ask for advice on other people who have had kids and what they did about going back to work and those who cannot afford it...
Is that so much to ask? ..
I have found many people on here so negagtive...
Quite a few of you wait for people like me to come on asking for help
and you jump on with your criticism

All those lady's that have helped and who have also got children,, many thanks to you .. im sure you understand what it is like to be stuck between a rock and a hard place!

emar,

People pick holes in your stories to try to make sense of them (because they don't make sense), and then you resort to name calling, even to those who try to help.

How about you work out what your story really is, and then update us?

(BTW ... grammar!)

siren13577

you might also be able to get cut price childcare vouchers through your employer, it could be cheaper to work part time and get your wages bumped up by WTC, also a child minder may be cheaper for you, good luck and congratulations on the twins!!!

emar

My company are in the process of bringing in vouchers..
I will defo look into that
Thanks

emar

dmg24 wrote: »

emar,

People pick holes in your stories to try to make sense of them (because they don't make sense), and then you resort to name calling, even to those who try to help.

How about you work out what your story really is, and then update us?

(BTW ... grammar!)

BTW i was asking for mature people to come up with replys!

dmg24

emar wrote: »

BTW i was asking for mature people to come up with replys!

Back to your insults again! I see that your vitriol on the Loans board has been deleted.

emar

Maybe if people gave advice instead of treating me like im a liar,,
I Think its awful that you just slander and not help when advise is requested.

Thanks to the people that have offered advice..
It has been well appreaciated.