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I just wanted to add a plea for people to thank mse-ers if they send you a prize they don't need. Mostly people have been really nice when i have passed along things that I didn't need or like, but I have had a couple of people not even bother to say thanks, or reply when I private message them to ask if it has arrived.

They were quick enough to PM me when I offered the prizes though!

I just found it particularly rude as I pay for the postage myself as a compers gesture of goodwill.

Kirsteen
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  • I just wanted to add a plea for people to thank mse-ers if they send you a prize they don't need. Mostly people have been really nice when i have passed along things that I didn't need or like, but I have had a couple of people not even bother to say thanks, or reply when I private message them to ask if it has arrived.

    They were quick enough to PM me when I offered the prizes though!

    I just found it particularly rude as I pay for the postage myself as a compers gesture of goodwill.

    Kirsteen

    I am totally amazed by this, how ignorant! I suppose thats a lesson learned. :mad:
  • isitenough
    isitenough Posts: 5,593 Forumite
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    Here, Here Kirsteen! Offering prizes is a lovely thing to do and a thanks is only one word.
    Thank you to everyone who posts comps! :A
    I would like to be lucky,healthy & happy in 2020! :T
  • NOSONDDU
    NOSONDDU Posts: 13,714 Forumite
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    I am horrified you even needed to post this. I think people who give away unwanted prizes are brilliant. I'd be thrilled to bits if someone was kind enough to pass on an unwanted prize. I totally agree that a thank you is the very least you can expect.
    "Every day when I wake up I thank the Lord I'm Welsh" Cerys Matthews
  • littleholly
    littleholly Posts: 5,682 Forumite
    Thats awful, make sure you don't offer anymore things to the same people again.

    NOW IN COMPING SEMI-RETIREMENT! :D
    AL MAC APPRECIATION SOCIETY MEMBER NO: 550 748 ;)
  • bella165
    bella165 Posts: 13,127 Forumite
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    i have had the same thing happen to me just recently its very rude aint it.
    Replies to posts are always welcome, if they are done in the correct manner. If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you
  • MiaVixen
    MiaVixen Posts: 1,043 Forumite
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    That's not very nice that they do that. Don't worry about it- at least you can rest easy in the knowledge that you are kind and considerate. :) Let's hope that one day they will learn to say thanks.
    Back to comping!
    (Still hoping to win a...holiday!)


  • walwin
    walwin Posts: 8,713 Forumite
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    I'm absolutely amazed at how ignorant some people can be :mad:

    Sorry your kind actions have been abused :(
  • lynn2302
    lynn2302 Posts: 464 Forumite
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    I totally agree, it costs nothing to say thank you
    I am suprised how many people in everyday life fail to have the ability to say that one word, i was brought up and my children have been brought up with manners, where have things gone so wrong that so many people are not taught this so very easy thing to do

    Ooops rant over :o
    Growing old is inevitable
    Growing up is optional
  • Downright ignorant & inexusable behaviour!

    Keep a list of the ignorant people & if you offer another prize & they apply, ignore them.

    Well done for offering your unwanted prizes, it's a lovely gesture, appreciated by many, I'm sure. :T
    :):D Tightwad. And proud of it! :D:)
  • Couldn't agree more!! I have both sent & received unwanted prizes & have always been really thankful & usually sent more than one PM to say thanks!

    Can't believe people could be so ungrateful - they know who they are now though don't they!!!!!!!
    The Rock Chick, she say 'courtesy costs nowt' - spread the word! :D
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