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  • Lillys_mum
    Lillys_mum Posts: 581 Forumite
    Is he happy with those arrangements?
    It doesn't seem very much.

    If it is written in about access do you have any financial detail also written in it?
  • Lillys_mum
    Lillys_mum Posts: 581 Forumite
    Kerrynocash wrote: »
    Our separation agreement (which stands with the divorce too) says he should pay the £50 but he is refusing to take responsibility for it. It's not as if, i'm walking around in Prada!!!

    Sorry posted at the same time.

    I would go back to whomever drew up the separation agreement and say that he is not sticking to it.
  • mom23
    mom23 Posts: 746 Forumite
    Kerrynocash wrote: »
    Nope, he's crap, says if I go after him for more, he'll go on the dole...why oh why did I ever divorce him! I think i'll do a updated budget planner and see how it comes out!
    Hi again Kerry
    My ex did exactly that i divorced him (he was an alcholic (SP) 11yrs ago and in 11yrs i have had a total of 126.00 off him as he went on the dole, i have 2 children by him and they get zilch for birthdays/xmas and the csa can't touch him!!:mad:
  • Kerrynocash
    Kerrynocash Posts: 22 Forumite
    Think I'm going to have to, although I think it would cost in legal fees!
  • Kerrynocash
    Kerrynocash Posts: 22 Forumite
    I always think it's funny, you hear of women clearing men out in a divorce, but how often do you hear of it going the other way!!!
  • Lillys_mum
    Lillys_mum Posts: 581 Forumite
    You might qualify for help due to being on tax credits etc.

    It is worth ringing them up first just to check what you would have to pay and also what they would be able to do.

    LM

    xx
  • Kerrynocash
    Kerrynocash Posts: 22 Forumite
    Have just redone the budget and it's come out as only being £18 per week overspending a week, wow, what a difference. I'm going to look into cancelling the gym membership and decreasing my phone bill to see if that will make a difference also combining my land line and broadband. Fingers crossed xx
  • Lillys_mum
    Lillys_mum Posts: 581 Forumite
    Brilliant!!!! :j :j

    I am so glad you can see an improvement.

    LM

    xx
  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    That's fab Kerry, good luck on cancelling gym and sorting out phones. Hopefully that'll get you back within a budget.
  • Kerrynocash
    Kerrynocash Posts: 22 Forumite
    I had my land line and broadband separate but have just changed it so am now down to £15.25 over per week!
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