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ivehadenough: We are concerned about you
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Bump Bump Bump Bump..... please let someone help ypu. IHE, Not been in the same position I know. But been there bad enough!!!!. These guys do help you and my heart goes out to you!!!
Take care wherever you are!!!
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I havent posted on MSE for a long time after moving to the states but always check these boards out as they helped me out alot over the last couple of years and I will forever be in its debt ( debt..geddit !! )
But when I read this post I had to write something, ivehadenough...we all support you and have felt trapped and alone with our problems at some time or another, but one thing that won't solve anything is ending it all, your children will be left without a mother and you won't be around to see them grow older and have kids of their own, and remember, if its bankruptcy, an IVA or something there are ways to solve your problems and so what if people know you are in money troubles, you'd be surprised how many people you know who "seem" to be doing well, really are'nt and just hide it.
You are'nt alone and people on these boards will help you, believe me they helped me a lot0 -
maybe she will log on today as the email goes outCompulsive Spendaholic #150
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It's a difficult issue - but can't be unfamiliar on this board surely? I am in two minds - firstly I think it is her good fortune that she has attracted 'protectors' who are fighting her corner for her, on the other hand I think that if I posted something on a site like this then received an e-mail or other sort of contact then I might feel a bit like my privacy had been broached. For example, when I first started googling 'debt' I had an unsolicited phone call with a 'government announcement' about IVAs - it felt very spooky - as though somone had been watching me on the internet.......
However, bump, bump, bump -Debt free by 22 January 2009 - thanks to an unexpected inheritance - take heart - it DOES HAPPEN!0 -
Bump, bump, bump.Everyday I am asked to be a magician, in a world where magic does not exist.0
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bumpety bump0
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still hoping .....
and Bountiful....funny u should say about the calls u got, we started getting the same ones!!...:rolleyes:0 -
Hi. I e.mailed the boardguide again and was told that now it is the hands of the forum team and:
even if they make a decision on what, if any, steps they are legally allowed to take - they may still not respond on the thread.
Remember that personal privacy and the data protection act both have to be carefully considered
so let's just hope the OP gets in touch with someone-even if they just pm someone so we know all is well.GE 36 *MFD may 2043
MFIT-T5 #60 £136,850.30
Mortgage overpayments 2019 - £285.96
2020 Jan-£40-feb-£18.28.march-£25
Christmas savings card 2020 £20/£100
Emergency savings £100/£500
12/3/17 175lb - 06/11/2019 152lb0 -
not much we can do then except to wait for them to get in touch. im starting to think like another post has that it could be a wind up, if they really wanted help they could go to a libary or a friends house to use the net if she/he had been cut of at home.Hi. I e.mailed the boardguide again and was told that now it is the hands of the forum team and:
even if they make a decision on what, if any, steps they are legally allowed to take - they may still not respond on the thread.
Remember that personal privacy and the data protection act both have to be carefully considered
so let's just hope the OP gets in touch with someone-even if they just pm someone so we know all is well.Back on MSE again! to take control of my finances and not let it control me. :T May grocery challenge £41.96/1400 -
a wind up? At 3.30 in the morning? And aren't wind ups supposed to be funny?0
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