ivehadenough: We are concerned about you

Adrasteia01

ivehadenough - I've just read your post. Please post to let us know you're ok as quite a few people are now worried about you. There's a way to get through this, and we'll help you to get there.

Blackcat_4

I really do feel for you, and understand your way of thinking.

I also work within a finance function and although CCCS have advised bankruptcy, it is just not a realistic outcome at the moment for me (I would lose my job as I work in one of the restricted occupations).

Looking at the worse case scanario for you at the moment:
your 5 creditors decide to go down the CCJ route!!! so what. The court will assess you incoming Vs outgoings and 9 times out of 10 will agree to the payment plan your have put forward (£1 - £5 month each). You pay that reduced amount.

Have you thought about asking for a small pay increase? 2% say

Have you thought about getting a higher paid job within another accounts dept? with your skills in accounting you should have no trouble, and there is a demand.

You have done a FANTASTIC job so far, and the passing of a parent is a life destroying moment (I Know, when my dad died I spent 7 months off sick). But keep the faith, you have hit the bottom of the hole and it WILL get better.

Blackcat.

bountiful

I hope she is reading. We are all doing as much as we can to support her....and there have been some great responses here - very inspiring. Love to you all xxxx

asp746

maybe the phoneline's been cut off.

please get in touch.

ElegantlyWasted

Bumping back to the front page.
ivehadenough, please post if you are reading this. Just to let everyone know you're alright.

Adrasteia01

Bumping msg

st1993

bumping up - there is a lot of worried people - just give us a sign

bringmeshoes

bumping up again

bringmeshoes

bumping up again
ivehadenough if you are reading this and don't feel like you can post then please pm one of us so that we can let everyone else know that your are ok theres a lot of worried people on here

Wol2

Bumping again sweetheart....please make contact with someone...we are all VERY worried....and some of us have been where you are...and felt so desperate...and we really DO understand .....which is why we're here for you now....you do not need to go through this on your own.

Much love
Wol2
xxx