what do you think?

rach!_3

tigtag02 wrote: »

erm, NOPE ~ the money I have coming in and out certaily isnt my families business nor do I have any interest in my family's income!



erm, YES

just because thats how your family works, if it wasnt anything to do with us why would they tell us?

Zara33

rach! perhaps try and not be so hostile in your posts.

rach!_3

relay wrote: »

I'm afraid that just because they are your family doesn't automatically make it your business.

would you all be saying the same if i had said i suspect some kind of abuse is going on? either to the kids or from one partner to another?

tosca5

rach! wrote: »

you want the truth? well no i dont think very much of her.
i normally find this forum very helpful, but im not sure i will be visiting this area of it again once this thread is finished with.

I gathered that.

Yes, this forum is very helpful, but in life sometimes we don't get the answers/thoughts we want to hear.

relay

rach! wrote: »

you want the truth? well no i dont think very much of her. i asked what you thought of the figures etc not what you thought of my finding out about my familys situations.
they cant do it because they dont have a telephone, internet access and wouldnt know where to start i on the other hand do.
this is just one avenue i am taking.
i normally find this forum very helpful, but im not sure i will be visiting this area of it again once this thread is finished with.

Ah, so it is personal then?

relay

rach! wrote: »

would you all be saying the same if i had said i suspect some kind of abuse is going on? either to the kids or from one partner to another?

No because we are not discussing abuse are we? Do try and keep on topic dear. lol

tosca5

rach! wrote: »

would you all be saying the same if i had said i suspect some kind of abuse is going on? either to the kids or from one partner to another?

Again i think people would tell you to stop doing your own detective work and report it to the correct authority.

rach!_3

Zara33 wrote: »

rach! perhaps try and not be so hostile in your posts.

no offence meant but why arent you saying this to all the others jumping on my back?
to everyone if you suspected fraud from anyone other than your family, wouldnt you want to do something about it?
i honestly dont think any of you would be "talking" like this if i hadnt said they were family.

tosca5

rach! wrote: »

just because thats how your family works, if it wasnt anything to do with us why would they tell us?

Maybe seeing as you are 'family' they trust you.:rolleyes:

tosca5

rach! wrote: »

no offence meant but why arent you saying this to all the others jumping on my back?
to everyone if you suspected fraud from anyone other than your family, wouldnt you want to do something about it?
i honestly dont think any of you would be "talking" like this if i hadnt said they were family.

No. As long as i'm keeping my nose clean, to hell with what others are doing, family or not that's their business.