Money Moral Dilemma: Should my friends share the cost of my holiday speeding fine?

MarkGriff

You were in control of the car it was you whom was speeding then you pay the fine. I think you are cheeky to even ask this question.

benedictadams

Ask yourself this question 

If you had been a passenger in the car and one of your friends had been in your situation would you in all honesty being willing to pay towards the fine 

yes we would all like to think we would but then the excuses of well I would have been driving differently etc would come into our heads

And if you are happy to chip into paying someone else's speeding fine in the dilemma but your friends are not then maybe you need to question why that is 

retired19

You're the driver therefore you're responsible for paying..

ShinyStarlight1

MSE_Kelvin said:

This week's MoneySaver who wants advice asks...

 While on holiday abroad with three friends, we hired a car. We were in a country notorious for being strict on speeding, so we were extremely careful to obey the limits. However, coming down a hill, I slipped over the limit. There were police with a radar gun waiting, and they pulled us over and issued me with a fine for a hefty amount. Should I pay it as I was the driver, or is it fair to ask my friends to help cover the cost, as it was an innocent mistake rather than irresponsible driving?

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If there’s a parking or speeding fine while I am on holiday with my two companions, I am happy to pay a third towards it. I am being driven around and know the driver is neither careless nor foolhardy so any penalty will be momentary human error. 

gloriouslyhappy

Technically there's no question the driver is solely responsible. However, as the designated driver for a group, a momentary lapse resulting in a speeding fine surely deserves some assistance from the passengers to help with the costs.

Bonnypitlad

You were driving, you pay your speeding fine. Simples
If someone else was driving would you volunteer to pay their fine?

Scillydiver

You were the driver so you own the problem, but I don't think much of your mates if they didn't offer to split the payment equally.

buttercup03

Did some, or all, of your 3 friends share the driving on the holiday, as well as the hire cost? If they did, were you ever aware that they were, even slightly, over the speed limit, at some point? If so, I think it's just that they share the cost, as it was just luck that you were the one who got caught on camera. Either way, if I were in your situation and they didn't offer to share the cost, I certainly wouldn't be prepared to share the driving on any future holiday with them. Their not offering you anything is like treating you as they, rightly, would a taxi driver who speeds and gets fined. But unlike the taxi driver, you driving them is a favour, not a paid-for business activity. 

Pollycat

You knew the speed limit and you went above it so how can that be an innocent mistake?

SStitanic

No.you have to pay