Motivation and Inspiration pre-retirement

Yorkie1

My parents lived just outside the M25, and about 5 years before retirement (so at about age 55) they had to replace the living room carpet. The debate was about which version of the carpet to go for, which involved deciding whether they would move after retirement aged 60 (i.e. the cheaper version), or stay put (the more expensive quality).

They decided to stay put as they liked the ability to go into London for museums etc, and felt that whilst a village in the Cotswolds would have been lovely for a few years, it would be come difficult if they became less mobile and the village amenities reduced, so that they had to get a taxi everywhere.

(The carpet is still doing OK!)

Nebulous2

I don't have a link to hand, but there is an interesting series of articles on retirement in the independent. There is a psychologist writing about the mental challenges people face in retiring, someone who retired very early, and somebody who doesn't intend retiring all giving their points of view.

The psychologist's article resonated with me, how people whose identity is tied up in their work struggle to find a new life beyond. It also gave a plea to look after your body, and enjoy the early stages, before all the ailments and pains strike.

LateStarter

I saw the notifications that this thread had attracted a couple of comments, so I thought I'd give an update.

I've not quite pulled the trigger, but I think I can can go at 61 (originally I was wedded to working until I was 62). We had another management reshuffle and my new manager has inserted himself into my working week with multiple meetings and updates to "improve my department's efficiency" (which no review in 25 years has mentioned needed improving). Maybe it was the push I needed to stop looking for inspiration, and accept I'm in the end game.

I'll be retired in just over a year, so I'm starting to have that feeling of "this will be my last summer of working". I'm using April 6th 2027 as the target date - if it's not my last day, it's the day I'll hand in my notice.

On the practical front, I've move my SIPP into gilts to have some security of income before state pension kicks in (posted on the pensions board), and this has helped make a mental shift into "prepare to spend the hoarded nuts". Yes, I'm filled with trepidation, but…here I go.

Savvy_Sue

Just a thought, but I don't think I've said how I handled my last day.

There were lots of us finishing the same day (I'd ended up with a nice redundancy payment because although everyone knew I was planning to retire I'd not given a date), and I knew we were all going down the pub after work.

But I also knew I wouldn't want to just go home and slump in front of the TV.

So we booked a weekend in a Premier Inn about 30 miles away, theatre tix for Saturday, garden visit on Sunday, then home.

DH picked me up from the pub and off we went.

SO pleased we did that, because when people realised I was saying my goodbyes they started chanting my name, and the entire pub garden joined in, and I ran ... before I broke down.

jamesperrett

I used to be on here quite a bit before I took early retirement at the age of 55 but visit less regularly now I'm no longer thinking much about pensions. Various circumstances conspired to make retirement a sensible decision and 9 years later, despite some major changes in circumstances, I'm really pleased that I did it. It meant that I was able to home educate my young son through primary and secondary ages. Has now taken half his GCSEs with another year to go for the rest of them.

I'm still working a little for myself part time and I doubt that I will ever stop working completely. An unforeseen change in circumstance meant a move back to where I grew up a few years ago and I now have my own dedicated space where I can work and indulge my interests. A few of my old friends have now reached the age where they can also retire so we can go on expeditions in the day while others are at work.

So I'm certainly happy with how things have turned out - even if things didn't go to the original plan.