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Hi All
My dad has passed away and I will be receiving approximately £100,000 within the next month or so. 
I am a 44 year old woman that works just above minimum wage. I have a partner who also works at just above minimum wage. I have two children at 14 and 18. I have never had much spare cash after all bills paid and food is bought. I receive universal credits that I am aware will stop when I receive the inheritance. I have a ten year old pension that isn't going to be worth that much by the time I retire. I have no savings and a 12 year old car that I still owe two years payments on. I live in a small two bed run down housing association house in a lovely village. My question is what should I do with the inheritance?? I've thought about an ISA, levelling and making my back garden nice, a few home improvements, driving lessons for my son, a nice holiday, paying my car and sofa off, maybe buying a more reliable car or even putting some into my pension. By partner has said about seeing if we can buy this house! My worry about that is having a mortgage with the payments being more than our current rent, we wouldn't be able to afford that or the upkeep of the repairs. Also my partner doesn't have the best mobility health, what if he can't keep up with his job that the mortgage payments won't be met?
Sorry for the very long message, I'm very stressed about getting this money and doing what's best with it. Please advise, thank you

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  • Albermarle
    Albermarle Posts: 27,795 Forumite
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    I would say your first priority is to set up an easy access savings account to hold the money whilst you think what to do with it. There is lots of guidance on this site and forum as to the better savings providers.
    Even when you spend the money you should keep some back for future emergencies.
    This can then cover you for unexpected expenses in future, so you do not have to borrow money.
    At least £5K 

    Paying off any debt should also be a priority.
    If your car is unreliable than could be a good idea to replace it with a newer one ( say three or four years old) .
    A family holiday would be something to enjoy.

    Buying the house could be more tricky . Of course I have no idea how much it would cost, but even if you put down a £50K deposit, you might still struggle to get a a big enough mortgage, with both of only earning minimum wage and having two teenagers to feed etc 

    As an alternative thought, you ( or your partner) might consider paying for some training, so you could maybe get a better paying job(s) .

  • Thank you for your advise. I also forgot to mention that I'd have to use some of the money each month to replace what I was receiving from universal credits. 

    Someone said to me about getting a financial advisor but I wouldn't know where to start or how much that would cost.
  • Robin9
    Robin9 Posts: 12,775 Forumite
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    At first sight you might think £100k is a lot of money but as you have seen there are a lot of things you would like to do and there are choices you have too make, choices that you've probably not have had to make before.

    I echo the above -  an emergency fund ; take a special holiday in memory of your dad; clear your debt.

    To which I would add do nothing in rush.


    Never pay on an estimated bill. Always read and understand your bill
  • Bostonerimus1
    Bostonerimus1 Posts: 1,398 Forumite
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    edited Today at 12:38AM
    Pay off all high interest debt...that sounds like the car and sofa loans,
    Put 6 months spending in the bank or a cash ISA
    Put money into your pension, if it is a defined contribution plan make sure you understand how it is invested ie what funds are you buying.
    Put money into an S&S ISA and invest in low cost index tracker or multi asset funds, (same goes for your DC pension if you have one).

    Don't buy your home if you can afford your rent right now. You don't want to get into debt just as you are getting out of it. You should only buy a home when you have ample spare income to afford the mortgage and other costs.

    Don't spend it on holidays or your kids. Keeping your 12 year old car on the road with a few repairs will be cheaper than buying a new car. If the car is really junk then replace it with a second had car. This is a lump sum that you can grow for your future security.
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