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When can I stop mentioning my preference for delayed completion date?



Hi all- first-time buyer here, so feeling a bit out of my depth. Any knowledge you can impart will be appreciated!
We’ve been viewing properties over the last few months mainly to get a feel for the market. Our full deposit won’t be accessible until late October, as part of it is in my partner's Lifetime ISA and we don’t want to withdraw early and lose the bonus/ incur a penalty (around 2400).
We recently saw a house we really liked and put in a full asking price offer, with the condition that we wouldn’t be able to exchange until October. We were just trying to be transparent in case the sellers needed a quicker sale. They were interested but came back asking for a 5% (14,000) non-refundable deposit to show commitment- we declined.
My question is: at what point should we stop mentioning the October timeline? Given that many sales take around four months anyway, is it better to hold off mentioning it unless specifically asked?
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stephaniesays said:
Hi all- first-time buyer here, so feeling a bit out of my depth. Any knowledge you can impart will be appreciated!
We’ve been viewing properties over the last few months mainly to get a feel for the market. Our full deposit won’t be accessible until late October, as part of it is in my partner's Lifetime ISA and we don’t want to withdraw early and lose the bonus/ incur a penalty (around 2400).
We recently saw a house we really liked and put in a full asking price offer, with the condition that we wouldn’t be able to exchange until October. We were just trying to be transparent in case the sellers needed a quicker sale. They were interested but came back asking for a 5% (14,000) non-refundable deposit to show commitment- we declined.
My question is: at what point should we stop mentioning the October timeline? Given that many sales take around four months anyway, is it better to hold off mentioning it unless specifically asked?
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kingstreet said:stephaniesays said:
Hi all- first-time buyer here, so feeling a bit out of my depth. Any knowledge you can impart will be appreciated!
We’ve been viewing properties over the last few months mainly to get a feel for the market. Our full deposit won’t be accessible until late October, as part of it is in my partner's Lifetime ISA and we don’t want to withdraw early and lose the bonus/ incur a penalty (around 2400).
We recently saw a house we really liked and put in a full asking price offer, with the condition that we wouldn’t be able to exchange until October. We were just trying to be transparent in case the sellers needed a quicker sale. They were interested but came back asking for a 5% (14,000) non-refundable deposit to show commitment- we declined.
My question is: at what point should we stop mentioning the October timeline? Given that many sales take around four months anyway, is it better to hold off mentioning it unless specifically asked?
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stephaniesays said:kingstreet said:stephaniesays said:
Hi all- first-time buyer here, so feeling a bit out of my depth. Any knowledge you can impart will be appreciated!
We’ve been viewing properties over the last few months mainly to get a feel for the market. Our full deposit won’t be accessible until late October, as part of it is in my partner's Lifetime ISA and we don’t want to withdraw early and lose the bonus/ incur a penalty (around 2400).
We recently saw a house we really liked and put in a full asking price offer, with the condition that we wouldn’t be able to exchange until October. We were just trying to be transparent in case the sellers needed a quicker sale. They were interested but came back asking for a 5% (14,000) non-refundable deposit to show commitment- we declined.
My question is: at what point should we stop mentioning the October timeline? Given that many sales take around four months anyway, is it better to hold off mentioning it unless specifically asked?
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housebuyer143 said:stephaniesays said:kingstreet said:stephaniesays said:
Hi all- first-time buyer here, so feeling a bit out of my depth. Any knowledge you can impart will be appreciated!
We’ve been viewing properties over the last few months mainly to get a feel for the market. Our full deposit won’t be accessible until late October, as part of it is in my partner's Lifetime ISA and we don’t want to withdraw early and lose the bonus/ incur a penalty (around 2400).
We recently saw a house we really liked and put in a full asking price offer, with the condition that we wouldn’t be able to exchange until October. We were just trying to be transparent in case the sellers needed a quicker sale. They were interested but came back asking for a 5% (14,000) non-refundable deposit to show commitment- we declined.
My question is: at what point should we stop mentioning the October timeline? Given that many sales take around four months anyway, is it better to hold off mentioning it unless specifically asked?
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housebuyer143 said:stephaniesays said:kingstreet said:stephaniesays said:
Hi all- first-time buyer here, so feeling a bit out of my depth. Any knowledge you can impart will be appreciated!
We’ve been viewing properties over the last few months mainly to get a feel for the market. Our full deposit won’t be accessible until late October, as part of it is in my partner's Lifetime ISA and we don’t want to withdraw early and lose the bonus/ incur a penalty (around 2400).
We recently saw a house we really liked and put in a full asking price offer, with the condition that we wouldn’t be able to exchange until October. We were just trying to be transparent in case the sellers needed a quicker sale. They were interested but came back asking for a 5% (14,000) non-refundable deposit to show commitment- we declined.
My question is: at what point should we stop mentioning the October timeline? Given that many sales take around four months anyway, is it better to hold off mentioning it unless specifically asked?
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Four months might be the average, but that means half of all transactions are shorter and then would be wondering why you're dragging feet. Not only crappy to the seller, but it could also come back to bite you if they pull out and you've wasted fees. I'd stop viewing until you're in a position to progress a sale, or at the least mention it for any houses you view until ~July.
Re exchange v completion:
You would need an exchange deposit upon exchange, which is usually 10% but can be negotiated to be a lower amount. The rest of your money ie mortgage and the rest of your equity (aka mortgage deposit) can be sent just before completion.
So depending on how much money is outside partner's LISA, you could exchange with just that and then add the partner's LISA money just before completion. That means you can exchange earlier, giving the seller the commitment they're looking for, but its a proper exchange after all the searches and surveys so you're not just handing over money for nothing.3 -
saajan_12 said:Four months might be the average, but that means half of all transactions are shorter and then would be wondering why you're dragging feet. Not only crappy to the seller, but it could also come back to bite you if they pull out and you've wasted fees. I'd stop viewing until you're in a position to progress a sale, or at the least mention it for any houses you view until ~July.
Re exchange v completion:
You would need an exchange deposit upon exchange, which is usually 10% but can be negotiated to be a lower amount. The rest of your money ie mortgage and the rest of your equity (aka mortgage deposit) can be sent just before completion.
So depending on how much money is outside partner's LISA, you could exchange with just that and then add the partner's LISA money just before completion. That means you can exchange earlier, giving the seller the commitment they're looking for, but it’s a proper exchange after all the searches and surveys so you're not just handing over money for nothing.0 -
As the old sayings go, you have to put your money where your mouth is. Deposit always required on exchange.Signature on holiday for two weeks2
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artyboy said:housebuyer143 said:stephaniesays said:kingstreet said:stephaniesays said:
Hi all- first-time buyer here, so feeling a bit out of my depth. Any knowledge you can impart will be appreciated!
We’ve been viewing properties over the last few months mainly to get a feel for the market. Our full deposit won’t be accessible until late October, as part of it is in my partner's Lifetime ISA and we don’t want to withdraw early and lose the bonus/ incur a penalty (around 2400).
We recently saw a house we really liked and put in a full asking price offer, with the condition that we wouldn’t be able to exchange until October. We were just trying to be transparent in case the sellers needed a quicker sale. They were interested but came back asking for a 5% (14,000) non-refundable deposit to show commitment- we declined.
My question is: at what point should we stop mentioning the October timeline? Given that many sales take around four months anyway, is it better to hold off mentioning it unless specifically asked?
10% is normally needed at exchange, sorry1 -
stephaniesays said:saajan_12 said:Four months might be the average, but that means half of all transactions are shorter and then would be wondering why you're dragging feet. Not only crappy to the seller, but it could also come back to bite you if they pull out and you've wasted fees. I'd stop viewing until you're in a position to progress a sale, or at the least mention it for any houses you view until ~July.
Re exchange v completion:
You would need an exchange deposit upon exchange, which is usually 10% but can be negotiated to be a lower amount. The rest of your money ie mortgage and the rest of your equity (aka mortgage deposit) can be sent just before completion.
So depending on how much money is outside partner's LISA, you could exchange with just that and then add the partner's LISA money just before completion. That means you can exchange earlier, giving the seller the commitment they're looking for, but it’s a proper exchange after all the searches and surveys so you're not just handing over money for nothing.
- complete all searches, surveys, etc
- exchange in the normal timeframe with 19k 6.8% deposit paid
Incl: agree that if you fail to complete, you'll pay the remainder to make it 10% (though that is super rare)
- complete in Oct, paying the rest of the deposit and mortgage to make up the total purchase price0
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