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WELCOME TO SPRING
I thought I'd do the lists a little different this week to enable more of us to feel we had achieved something and with spring approaching; each day will give you some basic flying, some deep cleaning choices and some decluttering choices. As ever feel free to pick and mix what needs doing for you according to your ability and time.
Welcome to the weekly Flylady Thread.
What is FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the US flylady idea - but we work on
the principle that housework is not fun, it's boring, can be time-consuming, is
often thankless but, unfortunately, necessary. It's here on Old Style to
provide the support we all need and to make the whole task easier and quicker.
We also accept that, sometimes, life just gets on top of us and we can't keep
up, maybe because we're time-poor, not in the best of health and/or we have
littlies who need us. We are definitely NOT control freaks aiming for
perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.
You're more than welcome to join us in the everlasting battle against dust,
grime and gibble. The aim of our thread is to make those onerous tasks less
daunting, and to support each other - and to make time for the finer things in
life!
Please do remember we have to abide by MSE rules; each post should, ideally,
include some mention of flying.
Thank you Valli for last week's thread.
Please follow the forum rules on this thread as Flylady has been here a LONG
time and is a fabulous support and resource for lots of us. All posts should
have some Flylady-related content! (i.e. it should be on-topic)
The idea is that even if you are really busy you don't need to fall off the
wagon!
Every room comes back around next week so please don’t stress about catching up
These lists are only suggestions and not a must do list; you are more than
welcome to post and follow your own lists.
Also adding a declutter mission each day will help to gradually clear the
clutter and make flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week -
Hotspots are areas where if one thing gets put there, loads of other
things follow!
Daily routines are anything you need to do on a daily basis like washing,
swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making beds, vacuuming high
traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time routines are all things which make getting ready in the morning
easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making lunches, swish & swipes
of the kitchen and tidying the living room before you go to bed plus personals
like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a bin bag and whiz around
the house finding items that can go out with the rubbish, recycling, for
charity shop, basically anything that will stop it cluttering your home.
Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe over an area such as a
sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is usually done on a daily
basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour exercise/challenge/ironing ... run around for
30 minutes to the Benny
Hill music frantically cleaning exercising or ironing.. .other
music may be used if you prefer!
WM ~ Washing machine
TD ~ Tumble dryer
SC ~ Slowcooker
BM ~ Breadmaker
DW ~ Dishwasher
SOAADFA ~ Sit on 'bottom' and do 'nothing'
KH/XH/FW ~ Ex-husband and other not so polite versions
DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever
OH/SO ~ Other half/significant other
NN ~ nice neighbour
Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever) ~ person in your life
that seems to exist to make your life miserable
AF ~ Aunt Flo 'time of the month'.. nothing to do with flying but
it comes up often.
ETA ~ Edited to add
Gibble ~ miscellaneous crap that appears forever homeless
Dot-to-dot ~ pick a small area (not a whole room) like a
chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or wherever- that’s your first 'dot' - totally
clear it - clean it - and only put back what should be there - deal with what
you have removed (not just move it somewhere else) then if you have time move
on and do the same to another 'dot' -the idea is just like a dot to dot puzzle,
you aim to join up all the dots and have a tidy room. The trick is to keep each
dot tidy until you get them all joined up! All credit to former Flylady AnW's
Mum for this one
RoD ~ Room of Doom, the one room that feels like it is a permanent
pit and cannot be used to its potential!
MAD half hour - Mad is the abbreviation for Make A
Difference.
The idea is that you have a Forth bridge (ie never-ending - or just huge) task
but that you work on it in half-hour bursts. This way you know you ARE
stopping, and that you won't get it finished but you will make a difference -
so it might be clearing out - the garage or shed, or clothes sorting, or
weeding - you get the picture - but rather than keep going until you've lost
the will to live you do half an hour...but, eventually those half hours will
get the job done!
Frog (or other amphibian) ~ google 'eat that frog'
Spoons ~ google 'but you don't look sick' and/or 'The Spoon
Theory'.
Mr S/A/T/M/L/Al - supermarkets Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco, Morrisons,
Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!!
Click here to read Toots wonderful welcome guide
Basic Flying...
Sweep and mop the floor
Wipe the worktops, removing everything that shouldn't be there
Sweep and mop the floor
Wipe the inside of the fridge and see what needs using up
Deep Cleaning...
Scrub any manky marks off walls and tiles
Run appliances through a clean cycle.. clean filters, drawers and doorseals first!
Empty and wash out bins
Clean out the freezer.. defrost if necessary otherwise just empty and sort it out. Scrub those door seals!
Decluttering...
Empty and clean out food cupboards.. make inventory so you know what you don't need to buy!!
Clean out the cupboard with the pet food/miscellaneous items!
Twinkling Tuesday ~ Living Rooms, Reception Rooms, Hallway and Stairs
Basic Flying…
Declutter and vacuum floors
Hoover stairs
Tidy magazine rack
Check smoke alarms
Deep Cleaning…
Wash any soft furnishings and plump cushions and fluff up throws
Vacuum sofa and chair cushions, including underneath them.
Clean smelly pets and their bedding
Dust and deweb
Polish electricals, glass and any unit tops.
Decluttering...
Tidy coats, bags and shoes
Update finances spreadsheets
Catch up on any important phonecalls and make any upcoming appointments.
Wishful Wednesday ~ Master bedroom and Landing
Basic Flying
Strip, wash and replace the bedding
Hoover floor in bedroom and on landing
Do your pillows need replacing?
Deep Cleaning
Empty and wash out all bins upstairs
Binbag dance
Dust surfaces and make sure no cobwebs
Wash windows and turn mattress before replacing with bedlinen
Decluttering
Sort one area of clothes or linen storage, make sure only what should be in there is. Anything that has had it’s day or doesn’t belong there remove it.
Sort through a bag or box of stuff you’ve not looked at in months. I am certain there will be stuff in there that you don’t need – I know I have some.
15 minutes floordrobe clearing..
Binbag dance!!
Thrilling Thursday ~ Bathroom, WC and Study
Basic Flying...
Polish taps so that they shine..
Sling shower curtain/bathmats in the wash and scrub down the slimy tiles!
Vacuum/mop floors in these rooms!
Deep Cleaning...
Scrub the bath/shower/basins/toilets/bidets etc.. don't forget the outside of the loo and under the scanky rim.. it gets naaaaaasty under there!!.. oh, and don't forget the top of the cistern!
Sling shower curtain/bathmats in the wash and scrub down the slimy tiles!
Replace bathmats/shower curtains/sponges and toothbrushes that are manky
Decluttering...
Clear and wipe window sills and frames and make the blinds/curtains nice and clean
Clean out the toiletries cupboard and put back the stuff you use.. and fling the stuff you don't! Do any necessary decanting so you have fewer almost empties!
Declutter and wipe the desk.. do any filing you find on there!
Set pc to declutter cache and defrag..
Sort all empties to recycling and make a note of anything you need to restock
Flying Friday ~ Everything Else
Flying Basics...
Hoover floors in childrens rooms
Empty any bins that have been missed
Strip some neglected sticky bedding
Dust anything you've missed during the week
Deep Cleaning...
Wipe paintwork in a room you haven't done in a while
Hoover any carpet you haven't done
Clean front and backs of 2 radiators
Wipe light switches
Decluttering...
Sort through a box of toys/junk
Sort through a drawer or cupboard
Straighten a bookcase..the books not the actual bookcase!!
End of week fling!! grab a binbag and fill it with stuff to leave the house..
rubbish or charity shop or to donate to a friend!
Declutter Challenge 2025
DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
Comments
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Thank you Natty x
Definitely Spring-like today! I'll be in this week, as usual, between tidying up the ancestors.
Hope everyone has a good week xxx7 -
Hi all
Thanks Natty.
Back to the paid stuff tomorrow after a week off. Alongside the flying I will be attempting to keep things in perspective and remember my job is just a job. I read a great quote this week about just letting stuff go, letting people be and focusing on your own health and happiness which is sound advice.
My lunch is made, my work bag is packed and my gym clothes ready for an early morning workout.
Off to bed with my book.
9 -
thanks for the list.
Another lovely sunny, frosty morning - would have been lovely in the lake but I'm still coughing a lot so reluctantly resisted.
Walked to church.
Did some gardening.
Did some drumming practice.
Made a moussaka for tonight and tomorrow's dinner.
Sorted out some emails and admin.
Emptied DW and put away.Remember...a layer of dust protects the wood beneath it.9 -
Good morning my lovelies xx
Another lovely morning here in Roundland. Still nippy though. Pops and Babs arrived home yesterday - they'll be needing their thermals on this morning.
I'm up, made my bed, put fresh towels in bathroom, removed laundry from radiators, FUPA, set used towels and tea towels swishing, removed never used oven gloves from kitchen drawer and hung on oven (use it or lose it 😉 ), got weighed* and supped my first brew.
*I lost 1.5 lbs this week. Back on track despite the stressy week at work. 😊
To Do Today List
Brew 2
Get dressed
Feed the birds
Put out the recycling
Empty kitchen bin
Put new bin bag in bin
Laundry shuffle
P & S calling for coffee
P to take bag of books, box, and shoe laces
WUDUPA
Monday = downstairs
Remove trophies from LR windowsill
Dust trophies
Put trophies in a box for DS
Clean window frame
Clean windowsill
Clean window
Sort books, box of stuff and bag of stuff ready to take to cs
Old slippers have been binned as they had gone lumpy underfoot. New slippers are on my feet.
iona - I'm still rolling 😊
Have a good week.
RxxIT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONSFOR MAGIC TO HAPPENRosemary Ikpeme8 -
Morning all. Thanks for the list. I am in and can do as I please today.
Wordle in four, connections with two lives lost and strands with two hints.
First jobs will be getting admin and banking up to date.
Have a great day everyone.Spend less now, work less later.9 -
ionafan said:took Rosie for her walk in the afternoon sunshine on the Edge -
Many happy times spent on " the Edge " escaping the carpet town for a few hoursSuccess is the sum of small efforts repeated day in and day out.Thats what I keep telling myself :-)8 -
Morning all,
Thank you for the lists.
Another frosty and sunny start to the day here. The temptation is to go back outside, first to the allotment and then the back garden, squeeeezzziing in flying when I can.
Wm is on - I put it on early so that I could get on, and forgot to press start. So much for early intentions. Phoned the hospital for DD as the appointment they have sent through is so obviously wrong, but they won’t talk to me, so that was time on hold that won’t be got back.Oh, and I weighed in. 1.5lb gain. Now I’m not pointing the finger anywhere, but if you happen to be in my line of view, then I’m looking firmly at you, Round 😎. You very well might have a serious case of declutteritis, but that doesn’t let you off this hook. Well done on the decluttering, by the way 😊.
I need to make myself a list. Maybe coffee would help if anyone fancies joining me?7 -
roundtuit said:
To Do Today List
Brew 2 ✅
Get dressed ✅
Feed the birds ✅
Put out the recycling ✅
Empty kitchen bin ✅
Put new bin bag in bin ✅
Laundry shuffle ✅
P & S calling for coffee
P to take bag of books, box, and shoe laces
WUDUPA
Monday = downstairs
Remove trophies from LR windowsill
Dust trophies
Put trophies in a box for DS
Clean window frame
Clean windowsill
Clean window
Sort books, box of stuff and bag of stuff ready to take to cs
I've examined a couple of packages in RoD2. One contains a photo frame, the other an Elvis clock...both gifts from DS. They need to be displayed and packaging recycled or binned as appropriate. I forgot I had them. Its like having Christmas again...which year's Christmas I've no idea though 🤔
Three small photos rescued from RoD1 and put with other photos.
There's an 'I think that came free with a Beano' thing (said DS) and a deflated beach ball from pre 2003 that are going in the bin when I've signed off.
Every little helps 😊
RxxIT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONSFOR MAGIC TO HAPPENRosemary Ikpeme8 -
Morning all
I'll be out a lot this week with appointments & lunches so instead of a plan, I'll do basic PUPA/FUPA/S&S when I can and list flying achievements, if any, at the end of the day.
Seeing physio today to discuss MRI results & treatment 🤞
"I started out with nothing
And still got most of it left"
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Q2 +0.5/7. 😬 starting again (again, again)
Q1 - lost 4/78 -
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