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Spendy Wendy to Saver Savvy

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  • foxgloves
    foxgloves Posts: 12,849 Forumite
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    @Spendywendywoo - It's the psychology of it as much as anything, I think. Once you've been struck by the light that debt is a one-way ticket to financial insecurity, esp if you've been spendy for a long time, as we were, you really do just want it gone & to embrace a fresh clean slate.
    I can really relate to that.
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    2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
    2) To read 100 books (46/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg

    "Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards" (Soren Kirkegaard 1813-55)
  • janb5
    janb5 Posts: 2,680 Forumite
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    Thanks @Suffolk_lass, I've had a long thought about it these last few days and I'll just be relieved to pay it off and have no debt (other than mortgage). I guess I could apply for a 0% card if any large unexpected bills come my way but I do have, and will still have a car maintenance EF (£300), home maintenance EF (£300), Christmas pot (£900) and EF (£1000) in the pot so not without any extra money at all. I have the car service and MOT next month but I've already got the monies for that saved too, again unless there are any major repairs needed, in which case I will dip into the car maintenance EF for the time being. I think I'm comfortable with the spend, I guess I'm kicking myself for having the debt in the first place, but we live and learn and I'm lucky to be in the position I am :)
    Just wondering whether the Christmas budget needs to be so high @ £900?
  • Spendywendywoo
    Spendywendywoo Posts: 322 Forumite
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    @foxgloves thank you, a clean slate will be a huge relief. 

    @janb5, the Christmas budget includes Christmas Day meal out (we all go out as a family with extended family, and we all love every minute as it’s now a tradition), 2 events leading up to Xmas, presents for the kids in the family (we’re a big family but see each other all the time), we need a new tree this year as the one we have is circa 16 years old and the dog has fallen it a fair few times when he was a puppy. We’ve lasted as long as we can but we decided to throw it away in April when we cleared the attic out. We did look for a new one then but there wasn’t many on sale. Food and a few drinks over the festival period with family we don’t see on Xmas day and a date night for me and DH leading up to Xmas. I wasn’t sure if £900 was enough but that’s all I’m allocating this year so it will need to be 😀
    Mortgage (MFD 04/2053) (Jan 25) £238,983.71. Overpayment set to £200 per month. Current: £234,483.39
    Car Balloon Payment £12,243.60, due Nov 25. Saved £12,243.60 (100%)!

    2025 goals:
    23 / 25 books
    7 / 24lbs lost
    £1000 / £1000 EF 

    DFW Diary: Spendy Wendy to Saver Savvy — MoneySavingExpert Forum
  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,486 Forumite
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    It sounds like plenty to me, but we are not too extravagant and buy a freshly cut Nordman Christmas Tree each year (and it gets used as kindling in the woodburner after drying out for a year
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £10,020.92 out of £6000 after September
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £2234.63/£3000 or 74.49% of my annual spend so far (not going to be much of a Christmas at this rate as no spare after 9 months!
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
    My new diary is here
  • Spendywendywoo
    Spendywendywoo Posts: 322 Forumite
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    Oh I love the idea of a fresh tree but we have the space to store an artificial and, for the time being, it's one less thing to buy at Xmas (usually), that said I can imagine me and DH will certainly get a fresh tree when DS is older and life is a little less chaotic :)
    Mortgage (MFD 04/2053) (Jan 25) £238,983.71. Overpayment set to £200 per month. Current: £234,483.39
    Car Balloon Payment £12,243.60, due Nov 25. Saved £12,243.60 (100%)!

    2025 goals:
    23 / 25 books
    7 / 24lbs lost
    £1000 / £1000 EF 

    DFW Diary: Spendy Wendy to Saver Savvy — MoneySavingExpert Forum
  • Spendywendywoo
    Spendywendywoo Posts: 322 Forumite
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    Juts popping by with a quick update. We've had the car serviced and MOT'd today, £245 in total so not bad.  I had allocated £300 over the two categories so £55 into the car balloon payment fund :)

    Dh and I were talking at the weekend and he complimented just how much our budget has changed this year, in only 10 months. We've put a loose plan together for next year but we are going to be even tighter with our budgets to really benefit from the savings we will make, and the additional investments we will start. So proud of this year's progress
    Mortgage (MFD 04/2053) (Jan 25) £238,983.71. Overpayment set to £200 per month. Current: £234,483.39
    Car Balloon Payment £12,243.60, due Nov 25. Saved £12,243.60 (100%)!

    2025 goals:
    23 / 25 books
    7 / 24lbs lost
    £1000 / £1000 EF 

    DFW Diary: Spendy Wendy to Saver Savvy — MoneySavingExpert Forum
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,532 Forumite
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    You've done brilliantly.  Good news about the car too.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,532 Forumite
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    That is amazing, huge congratulations!  I look forward to your next chapter :)
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • Rhyddid2026
    Rhyddid2026 Posts: 621 Forumite
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    Brilliant news!! Well done!!
    Debts                04/01/25         01/11/25   
    Natwest2           £6,509.97       £5,700 
    NatWest CC      £7,612.74       £6,755
    Lloyds CC          £6,112.60      £4,815
    1st Direct CC     £176.03         £0
    CC total             £20,411.34     £17,270
    TSB OD             £500              £0
    1st Direct OD     £600              £0
    Car loan             £4,000           £4,000
    1st Direct Loan  £10,684.44    £8,710
    Total                   £36,195.78    £29,980
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