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  • Cheery_Daff
    Cheery_Daff Posts: 18,003 Forumite
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    Oh goodness me, what a day for you all. So glad you could be there for sis and niece, and that she got a good night's sleep. All fingers crossed for the scan, and that they can quickly and easily sort out whatever's wrong, and that everyone can have a wash and a good kip soon xxx
  • Hope your niece continues to improve
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  • EssexHebridean
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    edited 5 November 2025 at 11:17AM
    Oh very glad to hear that she won't need an op Vix - you must all be really relieved. Fingers remaining crossed, indeed. 
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  • Fingers crossed that your DN is on the road to recovery.  Hopefully the temperature spike is 'just one of those things' that the body goes through.  At least she's in the right place for monitoring and treatment.  Poor thing with the drops though - I can't imagine having to help an adult to do that - never mind a child, although I bet she's being super-brave.

    Again, you're so supportive with the catering.  Absolutely agree with the direness of hospital offerings - from the trolley or the vending machine. 

    Continuing to send all best wishes for DN's full recovery.

    Greying X
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  • Cheery_Daff
    Cheery_Daff Posts: 18,003 Forumite
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    Good wishes from here too, and I'm glad you're able to pop in with proper food. Hospital's bad enough without surviving on crisps and nonsense! All fingers crossed she's properly better and home soon. 
  • themadvix
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    Poor thing with the drops though - I can't imagine having to help an adult to do that - never mind a child, although I bet she's being super-brave.


    She's certainly being braver than her mum - getting Sis to have eye drops is a two-person job - one to hold her down and another to administer, and that's as an adult 🤣
    Good wishes from here too, and I'm glad you're able to pop in with proper food. Hospital's bad enough without surviving on crisps and nonsense! All fingers crossed she's properly better and home soon. 
    Thanks Cheery.
    Feels a bit de ja vu this morning. Her temp is back down, but the redness has spread further (she's been drawn on again, much to her displeasure!). The only bright spot (fingers crossed) is that she's not had paracetamol since last night, so temp appears to be going down on its own.
    I will pop up later, possibly with pesto pasta for lunch, after supermarket delivery, heat pump audit and, hopefully, quite a bit of work done.
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  • Watty1
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    Hope she continues to improve.
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • Fingers crossed that the inflammation is just 'coming out' - to stay out, and the body is doing it's work - although the eye swelling must be painful and distressing.  Well done Brave Niece!

    Greying X
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  • greenbee
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    Sorry to hear about your niece. I'm glad you're able to support them (and they don't have to eat hospital food!). Hopefully there will be more improvements soon. 
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