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konn1ch1ha
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Hi all,
I am a 35 year old male, married, but in the process of divorcing my wife. I want to start looking at my future retirement pot.
I am self-employed and on modest pre-tax income between £20-24k. We have an our home (no mortgage). I am also on a very small £4k salary with a pension. I will be looking to buy my wife out of the equity upon the divorce.
Investing for the future has been something I've been putting off for a while but I need to start thinking about it soon. Investing is a minefield, there are too many options to select from and I am looking for some insight of good places to start. I'm very aware of the government's LISA, which I have been very tempted to invest in. Any good providers?
Cryptocurrency is something else I've been interested in but that's more of a gambling/techbro thing the kids are doing at the moment and is another avenue of confusion.
Is it worth speaking too a professional financial advisor? My bank (Loyds)? Where to begin?
TIA
I am a 35 year old male, married, but in the process of divorcing my wife. I want to start looking at my future retirement pot.
I am self-employed and on modest pre-tax income between £20-24k. We have an our home (no mortgage). I am also on a very small £4k salary with a pension. I will be looking to buy my wife out of the equity upon the divorce.
Investing for the future has been something I've been putting off for a while but I need to start thinking about it soon. Investing is a minefield, there are too many options to select from and I am looking for some insight of good places to start. I'm very aware of the government's LISA, which I have been very tempted to invest in. Any good providers?
Cryptocurrency is something else I've been interested in but that's more of a gambling/techbro thing the kids are doing at the moment and is another avenue of confusion.
Is it worth speaking too a professional financial advisor? My bank (Loyds)? Where to begin?
TIA
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Pension is the obvious vehicle for retirement planning given the tax advantages - if you're already paying into one then can you simply pay more into it?2
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konn1ch1ha said:Hi all,
I am a 35 year old male, married, but in the process of divorcing my wife. I want to start looking at my future retirement pot.
I am self-employed and on modest pre-tax income between £20-24k. We have an our home (no mortgage). I am also on a very small £4k salary with a pension. I will be looking to buy my wife out of the equity upon the divorce.
Investing for the future has been something I've been putting off for a while but I need to start thinking about it soon. Investing is a minefield, there are too many options to select from and I am looking for some insight of good places to start. I'm very aware of the government's LISA, which I have been very tempted to invest in. Any good providers?
Cryptocurrency is something else I've been interested in but that's more of a gambling/techbro thing the kids are doing at the moment and is another avenue of confusion.
Is it worth speaking too a professional financial advisor? My bank (Loyds)? Where to begin?
TIA
Either use an independent financial advisor or DIY.
Before arranging anything with your bank check how they operate. It could be they are tied to their own products and not considering whole of market options.2 -
eskbanker said:Pension is the obvious vehicle for retirement planning given the tax advantages - if you're already paying into one then can you simply pay more into it?0
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No - it's your money. Essentially an investment account with age based access restrictions. You can combine pensions as well so you're not stuck with you old employer's choice forever.1
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gravel_2 said:No - it's your money. Essentially an investment account with age based access restrictions. You can combine pensions as well so you're not stuck with you old employer's choice forever.
Would it be wise to hold off paying any more in if I'm getting a divorce and the possibility of the pensions getting split (despite having next to nothing in mine)?0 -
konn1ch1ha said:eskbanker said:Pension is the obvious vehicle for retirement planning given the tax advantages - if you're already paying into one then can you simply pay more into it?
You mention that you're planning to buy your wife out of her half of an unmortgaged property, which would suggest that you have access to significant savings, which are likely to be relevant when considering your financial situation?0 -
If you have savings in a bank account or in a pension they would need to be included in financial disclosure either way. But if things are just about finalised in your split I'd wait to move too much about as it will just cause confusion in my opinion.
Once things have calmed down then you can look at contributing more to a work pension. These are normally called additional voluntary contributions (AVCs) and just add an investment pot to whatever else is in your pension. The alternative is to open your own personal pension and contribute to that. There are advantages to both. Contributing extra to a work pension is easy because you don't need to think much about it (which I like as I'm lazy) and there may be cost advantages as you're part of a large group.
ISAs are also a good way to save without incurring tax on any gains on your investments.
If you are able to get an appointment with someone at your bank then that might be a good place to start. Just be aware that they are working for the bank so everything they will be suggesting generally will be to get something with that bank. But they will give you (hopefully) lots of helpful information that you can take away and think about. You can then decide if you want to go back to them to get that ISA, mortgage, whatever or go somewhere else. Whatever happens don't be pressured into signing up to something too quickly just because "Bob at the bank" was a good bloke and very helpful.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe, Old Style Money Saving and Pensions boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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eskbanker said:konn1ch1ha said:eskbanker said:Pension is the obvious vehicle for retirement planning given the tax advantages - if you're already paying into one then can you simply pay more into it?
You mention that you're planning to buy your wife out of her half of an unmortgaged property, which would suggest that you have access to significant savings, which are likely to be relevant when considering your financial situation?0 -
konn1ch1ha said:eskbanker said:konn1ch1ha said:eskbanker said:Pension is the obvious vehicle for retirement planning given the tax advantages - if you're already paying into one then can you simply pay more into it?
You mention that you're planning to buy your wife out of her half of an unmortgaged property, which would suggest that you have access to significant savings, which are likely to be relevant when considering your financial situation?1 -
eskbanker said:konn1ch1ha said:eskbanker said:konn1ch1ha said:eskbanker said:Pension is the obvious vehicle for retirement planning given the tax advantages - if you're already paying into one then can you simply pay more into it?
You mention that you're planning to buy your wife out of her half of an unmortgaged property, which would suggest that you have access to significant savings, which are likely to be relevant when considering your financial situation?
So as per the above post, probably best to get the current financial/divorce difficulties sorted first, and then start planning for the future after that.
Is there any chance you can move to better paid employment at some point ?
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