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Next steps; grip-relaxing bimbling, and avoiding the temptations

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  • Watty1
    Watty1 Posts: 8,106 Forumite
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    VNM's mother's house was overwhelming. I felt ill every time I went there and neither he or his daughter wanted to clear anything belonging to a much loved relative.

    I was grateful to my grandmother for gifting so much in her lifetime - ok some of it was antiques and she gifted it, for example, a beautiful 1930s very sort over tea service to the milkman because he had just got married and did not have much. My sister ruefully pointed out the sale of the tea service would kit out an entire kitchen and more but my grandmother told her not to begrudge others! It meant there was little to sort out.

    I hope I can get on top of clutter so my nearest and dearest (well those charged with looking after animals) get little to do.

    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • Watty1
    Watty1 Posts: 8,106 Forumite
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    Well, in about an hour you will have more information. (off to google starch absorption rates)

    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • foxgloves
    foxgloves Posts: 13,258 Forumite
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    edited 26 February at 9:29AM

    I find Tim Spector very interesting. I am intending to re-read his book & also have the one on fermented foods on order from the library.

    Sorry to hear you have gone down with a cold.

    Hope your online appt goes well. I am not unacquainted with gynae/oncology investigations myself & tend to feel better when I'm actively 'in the system' rather than waiting around in my default mode, which is overthinking.

    F

    2026's challenges: 1) To rebuild our Emergency Fund to at least £5k.
    2) To read 50 books (12/50) 3) The Re-Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
    Remember....if you have to put it on a credit card, extend your overdraft or take out a loan to buy whatever it is, you probably can't afford it, as that's not your money, it's somebody else's!
  • Humdinger1
    Humdinger1 Posts: 2,887 Forumite
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    We're all here for you @Suffolk_lass whatever the news. Even if it's bad at this stage, an awful lot can be done. Love Humdinger xx

  • foxgloves
    foxgloves Posts: 13,258 Forumite
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    edited 1 March at 9:09AM

    Glad you are feeling better today. There are certainly some nasty colds doing the rounds - it's not often I slump around in the day doing nothing, but at least mine only lasted around a week. I feel I'm catching up now & you soon will too. March is a good month for seed-sowing.

    F

    2026's challenges: 1) To rebuild our Emergency Fund to at least £5k.
    2) To read 50 books (12/50) 3) The Re-Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
    Remember....if you have to put it on a credit card, extend your overdraft or take out a loan to buy whatever it is, you probably can't afford it, as that's not your money, it's somebody else's!
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