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Next steps; grip-relaxing bimbling, and avoiding the temptations

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  • Watty1
    Watty1 Posts: 7,550 Forumite
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    Tiny cup and saucer candles sound charming (so much so I'm thinking of buying the cups in the local charity shops - like I really have time to take up candle making LOL)
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • Makingabobor2
    Makingabobor2 Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    I tried candle making once. Found it too time consuming really. 
    Making the debt go down and savings go up

    LBM 2015 - debt £57K / Now £27,864....its going down

     Mortgage Free December 9th 2024! 
    18mths ahead of schedule.  

    Challenges

    EF #68  £900/£3000
    .

    Studies/surveys  December £26.81

    Decluttering items 1385/
    2025
    Books read    21
    Jigsaws done  18

    My debt free diary...https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6396218/we-will-get-this-debt-d£own-the-savings-up


  • Suffolk_lass
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    My wax pot just goes into the aga for an hour to melt the pieces, and then I pour into the pre-wicked moulds, so not too much of an overhead @Makingabobor2 - Soy wax and cheaper paraffin waxes are more tricky but the nature of the beeswax and once rendered and cleaned it burns pure and true.

    So, just back from our haircuts (£25 for both of us), with Mr Sl also having his beard trimmed. Mine is just that toilet brush look before it gets cut, all sticking up and out, with flat bits where I've slept on it. All done now for 7 weeks.

    What else? My friend came to make fudge, and I made a double batch with her watching, and having a stir for the consistency, and making notes on the copy of my recipe we were making. She went home, via The Lone Ranger shop, to invest in a sugar thermometer. Updates during the afternoon and evening suggest it did not go to plan. It seems she plunged her pan into a sink of cold water instead of a bowl, and in so doing, opened the tap, ruining one batch. She sent pictures of a second, too-soft batch in its' tray but then in the bin. She could have let it air dry first, then turned it out, cut it and let that dry out too, but I fancy she lost her temper with it. Her choice.

    I am about to fiddle-faddle (technical term!) with some marzipan, to decorate a couple of Christmas cakes. One for my Mum, who loves Marzipan. The other will go over the road to the Christmas coffee and shopping morning as my contribution of cake. I shall make shortbread next week, but that is for me to sell on my table.

    I've also offered to do a pasta bake for Sunday's Christmas get together at my friend's house. I think she is quite relieved that someone else is cooking a "main" as there are lots of nibbles and sweet things from everyone else. I'll cook the pasta and ragu and mix them then top it with cheese sauce and grated cheese, and it can then easily be reheated, at her house. She makes fantastic curried goat and is undecided whether to go for that or jerk chicken (equally fantastic). It should be good.

    Right, and my audio book next, I think!
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £10,020.92 out of £6000 after September
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £2234.63/£3000 or 74.49% of my annual spend so far (not going to be much of a Christmas at this rate as no spare after 9 months!
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
    My new diary is here
  • foxgloves
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    Sounds like fab food at your friend's get together. Back in the day when I used to go to such things, I often volunteered to bring a dessert & made a white chocolate terrine thing with a jug of apricot coulis to serve. Well, the coulis would travel in a lidded container, of course, but the good thing about the terrine was its solidity so it could travel in its cling-film lined loaf tin & be easily turned out onto a plate on arrival. It also travelled to 2 opera night picnics when my sis was still performing, so it was a good fool-proof traveller. Doh, I could fancy reviving that recipe now!
    I find that beginner fudge makers (myself included when I first started making it) often don't realise that 'soft ball stage' for setting test purposes really does mean that it will roll into a little ball which keeps its shape. If the boiling process stops once testing is at the 'promising looking soft blob' stage, then my experience is that it will be fudge icing for spreading on fairy cakes rather than something which will set for cutting up. I only have one batch to make this year as I want to test out a gingerbread bun recipe too so will be gifting a tin of those to my nephews instead.
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    2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
    2) To read 100 books (46/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg

    "Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards" (Soren Kirkegaard 1813-55)
  • thriftmonster
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    I have been known to tip a tin of fudge back into a clean pan and give it another few minutes before I got better at knowing the feel of it
    “the princess jumped from the tower & she learned that she could fly all along. she never needed those wings.”
    Amanda Lovelace, The Princess Saves Herself in this One
  • Makingabobor2
    Makingabobor2 Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    You are just constantly busy...lol
    Well done on Mr SLs sale
    Making the debt go down and savings go up

    LBM 2015 - debt £57K / Now £27,864....its going down

     Mortgage Free December 9th 2024! 
    18mths ahead of schedule.  

    Challenges

    EF #68  £900/£3000
    .

    Studies/surveys  December £26.81

    Decluttering items 1385/
    2025
    Books read    21
    Jigsaws done  18

    My debt free diary...https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6396218/we-will-get-this-debt-d£own-the-savings-up


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