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Next steps; grip-relaxing bimbling, and avoiding the temptations

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  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 11,205 Forumite
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    Dilemma, do I make more Christmas cakes to make sure I don't damage the one for the neighbours, getting it out of the tin, or give them the one in our tin, unadorned by nuts and cherries on top, and keep the damaged one for us?
    Doh!
    Save £12k in 2026 #2 I have banked £9004.48 so far, against a £10k target The 2026 Save £12k in 2026 thread is here
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2026 I am sticking with a £3000 annual budget for 2026 - currently £1111.79 and most of my May purchasing made
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the grow your own in 2026 discussion thread
    My keep within our budget diary is here
  • foxgloves
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    Has one of your cakes broken then or is this a 'just in case' dilemma? I've made a Christmas cake every year since I was in my teens & have never had one get damaged when releasing it from the tin as fruit cakes are usually pretty solid.  I've probably tempted fate now & will be turning out a big fruity pile of crumbs this year!
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    2026's challenges: 1) To rebuild our Emergency Fund to at least £5k.
    2) To read 50 books (12/50) 3) The Re-Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
    Remember....if you have to put it on a credit card, extend your overdraft or take out a loan to buy whatever it is, you probably can't afford it, as that's not your money, it's somebody else's!
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  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 11,205 Forumite
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    Decision made on damaged cake. We shall keep that one. Entirely my fault for being a) too keen to remove it from the tin before it cooled completely, b) using butter paper round the walls of the tin so that they rumpled when I pushed the bottom up, and c) not putting enough butter on the said papers, so they stuck to the cake more.

    I do not need to make another batch (repeats to self, regularly)

    The last credit card balance of the month cleared this morning, and I have completed the TT scrapings, down to nice round figures this morning. The only given spends to come this month are the window cleaner, coming today, the milk bill, and the stone for the garden (and gardener), tomorrow for the latter, and his time again next week. Worth every penny!

    My sourdough loaf/loaf and rolls is baked. Four candles are drying in their little cups, ready for next Saturday - they might sell as decorative little cup and saucer candles. One bucket of honey now jarred up. Just off out for lunch with some friends who are delivering a painting one painted and we bought
    Save £12k in 2026 #2 I have banked £9004.48 so far, against a £10k target The 2026 Save £12k in 2026 thread is here
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2026 I am sticking with a £3000 annual budget for 2026 - currently £1111.79 and most of my May purchasing made
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the grow your own in 2026 discussion thread
    My keep within our budget diary is here
  • Humdinger1
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    A big, fruity pile of crumbs - hmmm  ideal! Crumbs dont count on diets especially if eaten standing up.   Love Humdinger xx 
  • foxgloves
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    Good luck with your delivery!
    The things for your stall sound lovely. I always think beeswax polish smells lovely & the fragrance lingers too, so that on returning home, I am reminded that I have polished the dresser! At our wedding, we gave each guest a tiny beeswax candle in their wedding favour bags (among other little things). I remember the bee stallholder's face at the fayre when I bought one of his tiny candles for myself & asked if he could cast me another 50 in time for our wedding!
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    2026's challenges: 1) To rebuild our Emergency Fund to at least £5k.
    2) To read 50 books (12/50) 3) The Re-Shrinking of Foxgloves 8.1kg/30kg
    Remember....if you have to put it on a credit card, extend your overdraft or take out a loan to buy whatever it is, you probably can't afford it, as that's not your money, it's somebody else's!
  • rtandon27
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    So much fun to hear about your craft stall ventures - please brain dump away!
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