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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 99,142 Ambassador
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    Good news.

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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,925 Forumite
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    And it is now 'no time' and you are back under 10k as expected 😉

    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • biggerpickle
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    It comes to something when the most exciting MSE thing on the go is to have washing drying on the line - not that I have a tumble drier! Having all radiator space from laundry now freed up means I've turned off one radiator now and it's not even the end of February. It helps that I have a covered balcony which gets a decent breeze as well as afternoon sun and am blatantly ignoring the archaic "no laundry visible" estate rule!

    Other MSE things not so stellar as has a half term museum & lunch trip in town / social few days so £115 used from service charge savings. Payday this week will replenish some of that as well get rid of another chunk of debt, still hovering under £10k though. Next barrier is the £9k one, maybe April payday?

    DP and I decided on a camping weekend early summer as well as festival weekend - pItchup identified a site with a pool and sauna so a bit of a step up from just a field, checking shows the same price as booking direct so I'll pay the deposit this week so I can get a pitch request in for his mobility, he won't request it as "plenty others are worse" (he does have a blue badge and would almost certainly qualify for the PIP mobility element but won't apply). I predict horrific rainstorms in the south west end of June now!

    In minor money good stuff, I noticed last week that my mortgage has gone under the next £10k which was an inadvertent milestone achieved, most of this is obviously the normal payment but I do overpay by just under 3% of the monthly payment each month to round it nearest £50, and in dull-as trivia this must help my daily interest going down by ~5p a month.

    July 2024 £12,150  Apr 26 H/fax £3,075, B/Card £4,446, Lyds £1,407, payin3 £642, Very £46 Total £9,616 back in the right direction this month!
  • beanielou
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    What’s his thoughts on not applying for the mobility component? Always a little bit extra in the pot?

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  • biggerpickle
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    To quote him (it came up in text chat just last week) " the welfare bill is rising and I don’t need that benefit now. If I claimed it, I’d end up paying through tax increases". It took him several months to come round to the idea of applying for a blue badge and seldom uses it.

    Ccomedy email of the day - an overseas school trip for teen#1, £3.4k. Am hoping exh doesn't want him to go, there's no way I can find an acceptable share of that.

    July 2024 £12,150  Apr 26 H/fax £3,075, B/Card £4,446, Lyds £1,407, payin3 £642, Very £46 Total £9,616 back in the right direction this month!
  • beanielou
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    Blimey. £3.4k for school trip. Away to lie in a darkened room.

    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan. 19months left.
  • biggerpickle
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    edited 26 February at 4:08PM

    Payday comes round again and feeling more optimistic about staying on track for a few months, helps that February is a short month and March is a double child benefit month. Assorted debts paid off / down and deposit paid for camping.

    Sitting here wfh and I think it might be time for a new desk chair - this one was an "argh, every where is out of stock, it'll have to do" just about 6 years ago when wfh abruptly kicked in for so many of us. Since I've moved my desk is now in the corner of the lounge so will spend sometime looking for a more attractive one.

    Edit to add: for the first time in this diary, all my debt is faceless credit companies, and doesn't have bits to other people / school / underpaid bills etc, it's still debt but feels better somehow, don't ask me on the logic 😂

    July 2024 £12,150  Apr 26 H/fax £3,075, B/Card £4,446, Lyds £1,407, payin3 £642, Very £46 Total £9,616 back in the right direction this month!
  • biggerpickle
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    edited 27 February at 5:58PM

    Wow!!!
    I think I mentioned sorting my pensions out a while ago and I'd completely forgotten that the new provider had an introductory offer - pay in £10k (or in my case transfer as didn't have £10k cash, that'd have been nice!) and get a 200 quid JL voucher which landed today. Teenmonsters seem to think it should go towards a PS5, I suggested towards a dishwasher! Can you use an integrated dishwasher freestanding while you wait for a new kitchen do you think?

    Though there is a bit of me thinks it would be lovely to go clothes shopping there instead of my usual supermarket / chazzas.

    July 2024 £12,150  Apr 26 H/fax £3,075, B/Card £4,446, Lyds £1,407, payin3 £642, Very £46 Total £9,616 back in the right direction this month!
  • vampirotoothus
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    Hi, yes you can you it stand alone. The thing that will make it integrated is that the kitchen door will eventually go on the front of it, so that it looks like a cupboard. V x

  • biggerpickle
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    Chatting to a sports Dad on the sidelines of teenmonster#2 match on Sunday and he's got a plumber mate so am getting a quote for installing a dishwasher (need a supply pipe extension from washing machine pipe and the mess of wastes under kitchen sink sorting) - warned him it might degenerate to a quote for full kitchen installation! I need 9 base units, new sink, taps & worktop, I had to replace the decrepit oven and hob when I moved here, I know affording it would be stretch but at least if I know the ballpark cost I can plan for it.

    Looking at moneys this morning and thinking making it to the end of the pay month is looking OK, anything I have left above zero on 24th will get slung at a credit card, probably H/fax.

    July 2024 £12,150  Apr 26 H/fax £3,075, B/Card £4,446, Lyds £1,407, payin3 £642, Very £46 Total £9,616 back in the right direction this month!
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