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Cheery's path to fulfilment - finishing the DIY, looking after myself, appreciating the garden 🌻

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  • missymoo81
    missymoo81 Posts: 8,049 Forumite
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    Hi Cheery! Im so sorry you’ve had such a difficult time over the festivities, what with you and OH being ill and now Mr C Snr. I hope everyone is on the mend soon. 

    On another note I loved reading about you the 10
    year blocks of life. I’ve been part of MSE for 15+ years  and remember lots of your adventures. You have inspired me to set realistic goals for next year. 

    I hope you feel better soon and life gets a little easier. 


  • rtandon27
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    @Cheery_Daff - sending over a great big supportive hug xoxox
    4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)
    (With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)
    ...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)
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  • themadvix
    themadvix Posts: 9,322 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear you've had such a rough-feeling Christmas Cheery! I hope things improve soon - both for you and Mr C, but especially for Mr C Snr. Take care x
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  • Glad you are both back on the mend, but sorry to hear Mr C Snr’s not so good. It does sound like he had a lovely Christmas meal though, at least. 
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  • Elisheba
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    Sorry its all a bit rubbish this year, Cheery.  Hopefully now you and Mr C are on the mend it will give you some reserves to cope with Mr C Snr's illness.
    Live the good life where you have been planted.
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  • Sorry to hear re Mr C snr - hope he gets comfortable asap and your trip to see him is safe 


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    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 97,527 Ambassador
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    Sorry to hear re Mr C snr - hope he gets comfortable asap and your trip to see him is safe 


    Echoing this. Xx
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  • missymoo81
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    Bless you, big hugs being sent your way.
  • Glad that MrC snr is in hospital - and that he gets moved to the relevant ward soonest. 

    Safe travels tomorrow Cheery.

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