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Shall I neg??

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  • angelcake
    angelcake Posts: 4,496 Forumite
    She has 600+ feedback!!! 99.9% she should know better!!!! I looked through the first 2 pages and couldn't see any reference of this happening before!! so I will probably look an idiot leaving something stupid!

    I am gonna leave it! she wanna pester me more? She gets a neg!! .
    :p:p Angel :p:p
  • beachbeth
    beachbeth Posts: 3,862 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I agree with jjames. Leave a positive but mention the pestering.
  • misty
    misty Posts: 1,042 Forumite
    You've had plenty of time to post feedback in the time you've discussed it on here. She probably finds you just as annoying as you find her. I can't see how you can justify neg feedback if the transaction itself was successful. Knowing she has left positive for you already - you are being petty and childish.
  • s@sha
    s@sha Posts: 589 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    Sorry, I agree with Misty. You've asked people here whether you should leave a neg. Most have said no, it would be unfair if the transaction was OK. It's already been suggested several times that you leave a +ive and either leave it at that , or let her know that this many emails are not appreciated.

    You've had loads of time to do this...you've even spent time looking through her feedback comments to see if others have said anything, as well as discusing it here.
    Yet you still want to ignore everyone's advice here, and 'leave it'...so the poor woman will probably email you again & then you're going to neg her anyway. Nice.
  • Tojo_Ralph
    Tojo_Ralph Posts: 8,373 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    angelcake wrote:
    I have had 6 emails requesting feedback in a matter of 1 and a half weeks! She is bugging me enough to actually leave a neutral!! The reason I haven't yet left anything is simply as I haven't had the time to log on!!!! and to find my email swamped is annoying!!

    I know feedback isn't compulsory, but I do always leave it when I get time!! ........What d'ya think I should put?????icon10.gificon8.gificon9.gificon5.gif

    Erm..... You have had time to read 6 emails, start a thread on a discussion forum, respond repeatedly..... Yet you haven't had time to "log on" and leave feedback?

    What am I missing? :confused:

    (Edit : Having to read the thread, I see the above has already, rather predictably been pointed out)
    The MSE Dictionary
    Loophole - A word used to entice people to read clearly written Terms and Conditions.
    Rip Off - Clearly written Terms and Conditions.
    Terms and Conditions - Otherwise known as a loophole or a rip off.
  • angelcake
    angelcake Posts: 4,496 Forumite
    So bloomin what if I have the time to come on here etc!!! What I say I make time for or not is up to me!

    It was supposed to be a light discussion! As what these boards are about! not an opportunity to get your sarky comments out! As, I have my own mind and what I put is entireley up to me!

    Why you trying to make me feel bad when I am not in the wrong???

    I think that if someone pesters you all the time then I will ignore it! I hate that anyway with "bunny boiler" friends so I don't appreciate it with people I don't even know!!

    And for the decent, nice people! Who come on here to chat or offer constructive advice!

    I had another 2 emails today! it is so rude! so I have decided she won't get her feedback! - its not as she desperately needs it!!
    :p:p Angel :p:p
  • danmanchester
    danmanchester Posts: 1,273 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Calm down angelcake :p it's only an opinion not an insult! by the way if I was in your shoes and being pestered for feedback report her to ebay for spam? or just block her email address! Sod her lol

    This thread just goes to show that ebay/paypal and FEEDBACK topics don't 'arf cause hurricanes in coffee cups......;)
  • mrcow
    mrcow Posts: 15,170 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    angelcake wrote:
    As, I have my own mind and what I put is entireley up to me!

    Then why on earth did you start a thread asking for opinions? Or is it just that practically everyone on this thread has disagreed with you, so now you're taking it out on them too?

    I hate that anyway with "bunny boiler" friends

    Maybe you need to find some new friends? :confused: If anyone I knew boiled bunnies, they wouldn't be my friends for very long......?
    "One day I realised that when you are lying in your grave, it's no good saying, "I was too shy, too frightened."
    Because by then you've blown your chances. That's it."
  • angelcake
    angelcake Posts: 4,496 Forumite
    mrcow wrote:
    Then why on earth did you start a thread asking for opinions? Or is it just that practically everyone on this thread has disagreed with you, so now you're taking it out on them too?

    As I had said before...........
    angelcake wrote:
    FOR LIGHT DISCUSSION

    I am not taking it out on anyone! I find email pestering rude and irritating! don't think I will bother contributing on here I really can't be bothered if idiots start having a go about things!
    LIGHT DISCUSSION:eek: !!!!!!
    mrcow wrote:
    Maybe you need to find some new friends? :confused: If anyone I knew boiled bunnies, they wouldn't be my friends for very long......?
    I rest my case! :rolleyes:
    :p:p Angel :p:p
  • angelcake
    angelcake Posts: 4,496 Forumite
    Calm down angelcake :p it's only an opinion not an insult! by the way if I was in your shoes and being pestered for feedback report her to ebay for spam? or just block her email address! Sod her lol

    This thread just goes to show that ebay/paypal and FEEDBACK topics don't 'arf cause hurricanes in coffee cups......;)

    I know sorry:o

    I think I will just leave it! cos now I want her to feel as annoyed as I do about the emails!! icon10.gif

    obviously the people who condone her "pestering" are people just like her icon12.gif
    :p:p Angel :p:p
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