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Mum wants to gift her house to me

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  • comeandgo
    comeandgo Posts: 5,930 Forumite
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    If she is going to see a solicitor they are not tax specialists so I would not expect them to have that knowledge.
  • Gavin83
    Gavin83 Posts: 8,757 Forumite
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    RAS said:
    OP, does your mum understand that if

    you die before her
    you need care yourself
    you have to apply for means-tested benefits
    you divorce
    you go bankrupt

    your part-ownership of the house could become very problematic. It's not anything you intend or expect, but none of us expect to divorce, have a stroke etc
    I used to work in this area and I've seen some real horror stories involving someone signing over their house to their kids, with the elderly person in question ending up homeless. Having put themselves in this situation in an attempt to defraud the council they then, without any sense of irony turn up on the councils doorstep expecting to be housed. I have zero sympathy but unfortunately the council does have to help.

    A lot of people would say it wouldn't happen in their scenario too, until it does.

    Another thing to note. You'd be surprised the amount of children who kick their parent out of their own house in such a scenario so they can free up the cash for themselves. People can treat their family horribly when a bit of cash is involved.
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 35,726 Forumite
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    I'm yes. I recall one charmer whose mum did that. Moved in GF and put mum in the annex Sold both and bought a new property hundreds of miles away where they would "look after her." Last I heard she was in a residential caravan in the garden whilst he's spent his way through most of the proceeds.

    The OP wouldn't do that but if she died and hubbie remarried, it could happen.
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  • Transfer then live in for another 7 years paying the new owner appropriate rent is the rule I believe.
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 35,726 Forumite
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    Transfer then live in for another 7 years paying the new owner appropriate rent is the rule I believe.
    Rather pointless since the estate falls under the IHT limit as far as we know
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  • njkmr
    njkmr Posts: 259 Forumite
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    Ok looking at it from another angle. 
    This forum is full of people telling us how much they pay into their pensions to avoid paying a higher tax rate so they can keep more for themselves. Also the fact that this skimming off of their earnings then attracts a nice slice of top up from the government for being so well off and smart..? By  government , I mean other tax payers like most of us that is.
    How come this is not frowned upon?
    Is this not burdening the lower end tax payers who can't afford to put tens of thousands of spare cash into a pension to attract government money ? And increase their wealth at others expense.
    Just a thought.
  • paul2louise
    paul2louise Posts: 2,548 Forumite
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    Sea_Shell said:
    The house is a bungalow worth less than 300k, similar property with more work done it on is on the market for £280k. 

    To be honest, all the more reason NOT to fiddle around with ownership.   50% of a much bigger (more expensive) house, would stand less chance of being exceeded by care costs.

     

    Does she have much cash savings?
    Yes she has some savings and money in investments 
  • Sea_Shell
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    Sea_Shell said:
    The house is a bungalow worth less than 300k, similar property with more work done it on is on the market for £280k. 

    To be honest, all the more reason NOT to fiddle around with ownership.   50% of a much bigger (more expensive) house, would stand less chance of being exceeded by care costs.

     

    Does she have much cash savings?
    Yes she has some savings and money in investments 
    At the end of the day, only you and your mum know if she'd have "enough" to cover her care, if that cash is added to 50% of the value of her home, and how long it might last.

    But that's just the financial aspect.

    You have to bear in mind the "unforeseen" circumstances that can also come into play, as eluded to above.

    You know how blurry the lines can get between family and money, as your dicing with inheritance issues shows ☹️
    How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)
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