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  • I'm wondering what everyone here is doing for Valentine's Day.

    Are you buying cards or gifts?
    Going out for a meal?

    The shops are piled high with a huge array of Valentine's items, most of it (imho) is absolute tat!
    I'm already compiling a mental list of all the stuff I have absolutely no wish to give or receive.

    I worry that I'm turning into a right old miser! :D
    This will be our first Valentine’s Day together, and even at the ripe old age of 33, having had relationships before, there is still the teenage commercial pressure around the day. I expect we’ll exchange cards with more than just names and a 1 sentence platitude in, and then cook dinner at home together.
    ‘When you only have two pennies left in the world, spend one on bread and the other on flowers. The bread will sustain life, the flowers will give you a reason to live.’

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  • Rosa_Damascena
    Rosa_Damascena Posts: 6,995 Forumite
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    edited 21 January 2024 at 10:42AM
    I'm wondering what everyone here is doing for Valentine's Day.

    Are you buying cards or gifts?
    Going out for a meal?

    The shops are piled high with a huge array of Valentine's items, most of it (imho) is absolute tat!
    I'm already compiling a mental list of all the stuff I have absolutely no wish to give or receive.

    I worry that I'm turning into a right old miser! :D
    No, you have developed a carapace to rampant commercialism. The idea that any man / woman / other loves you because they have bought you flowers on a single day yet has fallen short on the other 364 days of the year is just inane.
    No man is worth crawling on this earth.

    So much to read, so little time.
  • bouicca21
    bouicca21 Posts: 6,696 Forumite
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    My only unnecessary spend last week was my posh sausages.  The coming week for some reason has turned into an unaccustomed social whirl.  I’m going to be out every day bar one, and on the day I am at home, a friend is coming to lunch. Pretty sure that means only one NSD.  I did have socialising down as a necessary expense, but didn’t expect to be socialising quite so much.

    as for Valentine’s Day, bah, humbug.  
  • Hi all 

    I have been invited out with a friend who always looks amazing.  Then I found myself on social media where I saw an ad for a final clearance sale for a shop I like and before I knew it I had ordered a pair of jeans and a top.  I rationalised this by telling myself it's my birthday soon and Mum will give me some money which will cover it.

    Someone told me recently that thinking about what makes you spend is a really good idea and clearly social media is a danger point for me!  I am not beating myself up, I will decide whether or not to keep the clothes when they arrive.  I am also making myself keep a running total of non-essential spends. 

    Otherwise it's been a very low cost weekend.  We have spent £18 on a new fire grate because ours has a big hole in it but that's about all.  DH and I both have colds and the weather is awful so we won't be going far today. 
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