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Bold leap into retirement

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  • barnstar2077
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    pterri said:
    I am starting to write down a plan of what I am going to do after I retire in January.  My last day is New Year's Eve!  I am retiring because I just can't face the world of sales and work and the constant stress and hustle any longer at 58 and constantly reinventing myself and being in hock to an ever changing agenda and priorities.  I have many hobbies and interests, some with others and some on my own, but I have no doubt that at times I might get a bit bored, especially in winter.  Maybe retiring in winter is not the best of times but I just cannot stand it another month even.   I may also do some charitable work for the Canal Trust and some other things.  How long this "plan" survives reality will remain to be seen but I know I need to get out there a bit more once the social aspect of work has gone.  I'm a very sociable and happy person but sometimes like time by myself too.

    Speaking to other retired people, I have come to realise that I have to get out of the mindset that watching a TV series or a boxed set, or tinkering around with my guitar, bike or piano in the daytime is "wasting time" and that if that's what I want to do on a particular day then that's fine.   We've got plenty of time when retired!  That mindset is a hangover from the world of work where I wouldn't think of "wasting" a Saturday or Sunday doing that but when retired it's different.  Ever since five years old, maybe earlier in some cases, your day is run to a calendar set by others. all through school and the world of work.  For 54 years I have been subject to that calendar.  From January I wont be.  Yeah, it scares me a bit if I am honest.  I'm going to cycle with others more and go walking in the dales more with others and find some groups.
    Very much this, I’ve been retired since April. I quite often get up at 7:30, have a leisurely breakfast then cycle to my fav cafe in Victoria park from south London via the Woolwich ferry. It’s quite peaceful bobing across the Thames. Then cycle back home via Tower Bridge. A bit of reading then it’s t9me for dinner. Not wasted at all.

     Friend visited Vietnam this year, looked good so just booked flights and hotels for two weeks in January. Fly into Hanoi, then to Da Nang, Ho Chi Minh then home. I shall mainly be eating. 
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  • katejo
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    I have only reduced to working 3 days a week so far but, on my free days, still feel that I must use them purposefully. Daytime TV /film watching still makes me feel guilty that I am time wasting. 
  • WYSPECIAL
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    MallyGirl said:
    and am slowly making my way through a kids book in French to get an idea of where I am at and how much I have forgotten since my o level 42 years ago. 
    I'm trying to see how much French I can remember from O'level all those years ago too! I've tried watching cartoons but a kids book sounds like a good idea.
  • MallyGirl
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    WYSPECIAL said:
    MallyGirl said:
    and am slowly making my way through a kids book in French to get an idea of where I am at and how much I have forgotten since my o level 42 years ago. 
    I'm trying to see how much French I can remember from O'level all those years ago too! I've tried watching cartoons but a kids book sounds like a good idea.
    I borrowed a couple of books from a French neighbour but for now I have bought one (aimed at age 9-10) for the kindle and installed a French-English dictionary so that I can easily translate individual words. She also lent me an Asterix DVD for a point when I am less rusty.
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  • pterri said:
    I am starting to write down a plan of what I am going to do after I retire in January.  My last day is New Year's Eve!  I am retiring because I just can't face the world of sales and work and the constant stress and hustle any longer at 58 and constantly reinventing myself and being in hock to an ever changing agenda and priorities.  I have many hobbies and interests, some with others and some on my own, but I have no doubt that at times I might get a bit bored, especially in winter.  Maybe retiring in winter is not the best of times but I just cannot stand it another month even.   I may also do some charitable work for the Canal Trust and some other things.  How long this "plan" survives reality will remain to be seen but I know I need to get out there a bit more once the social aspect of work has gone.  I'm a very sociable and happy person but sometimes like time by myself too.

    Speaking to other retired people, I have come to realise that I have to get out of the mindset that watching a TV series or a boxed set, or tinkering around with my guitar, bike or piano in the daytime is "wasting time" and that if that's what I want to do on a particular day then that's fine.   We've got plenty of time when retired!  That mindset is a hangover from the world of work where I wouldn't think of "wasting" a Saturday or Sunday doing that but when retired it's different.  Ever since five years old, maybe earlier in some cases, your day is run to a calendar set by others. all through school and the world of work.  For 54 years I have been subject to that calendar.  From January I wont be.  Yeah, it scares me a bit if I am honest.  I'm going to cycle with others more and go walking in the dales more with others and find some groups.
    …also, more midweek cycling. Mind you I’m a bit of a fair weather cyclist so will pick and choose over the winter. 
    That’s one of the beauties of retirement; being able to pick and choose your days rather than being confined to weekends.

    Last Thursday was a pleasant day so I headed to the Peaks and walked through Lathkill and Bradford Dales. A very pleasant walk with a pub lunch in the middle and hardly anyone around. So peaceful 
  • QrizB
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    Congratulations to GenX and Mrs GenX!
    My bold leap is likely to come next year; somewhat smaller stacks of squirreled nuts than yours, but still big enough :)
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