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eBay offers want payment up-front
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jeffuk said:I wonder if they're trialling it on serial non payers, would make sense.
I have never not paid, always pay straight away. So no.
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GabbaGabbaHey said:messia07 said:thanks for the heads up. i will not be making offers if i have to pay up front.
i did a quick search on the ebay forums and one complaint was it can apparently take upto 15days to get a refund if your offer is rejected.If your offer is Accepted, then the payment is taken at that point (which is really no different from paying for an accepted offer now, and, as a buyer, is actually more convenient to my way of thinking). If the offer is Rejected, then no payment is taken, so there is never a case of needing to get a "refund" .1 -
donnac2558 said:I can across this on Monday when buying a bottle of perfume, I picked my offer price and filled in Paypal payment.Now the payment did not show on my bank account until this morning, and I am talking even the hanging balance. It did show on Paypal account. I was nearly caught out with my online banking, thinking why have I more money than I should?1
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tightauldgit said:I've had a few people make or accept offers and not pay immediately but then come good - but if they haven't paid within 24 hours generally they're not paying.
I wonder sometimes if accepting an offer straight off makes people think they've paid too much? But on the other hand quite often a counter offer just gets ignored and you lose the sale.
Other than that I think it's just people buying stuff online seem to have a level of entitlement and selfishness that isn't really conducive to a nice smooth selling process.most of my clothes went to charity and I’m in the process of gradually replacing them. I’ve looked at hundreds of items for auction and sometimes get a bit carried away and bid on a lot at once then find I’ve won all the bids. It never occurred to me to not pay (seriously
) and I didn’t realise it was a relative problem. I’m wondering if one reason for non payment is the buyers simply bid on too many items at the same time and win a lot of auctions can’t afford to pay. Am I being a bit naïve?
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Murphybear said:tightauldgit said:I've had a few people make or accept offers and not pay immediately but then come good - but if they haven't paid within 24 hours generally they're not paying.
I wonder sometimes if accepting an offer straight off makes people think they've paid too much? But on the other hand quite often a counter offer just gets ignored and you lose the sale.
Other than that I think it's just people buying stuff online seem to have a level of entitlement and selfishness that isn't really conducive to a nice smooth selling process.most of my clothes went to charity and I’m in the process of gradually replacing them. I’ve looked at hundreds of items for auction and sometimes get a bit carried away and bid on a lot at once then find I’ve won all the bids. It never occurred to me to not pay (seriously
) and I didn’t realise it was a relative problem. I’m wondering if one reason for non payment is the buyers simply bid on too many items at the same time and win a lot of auctions can’t afford to pay. Am I being a bit naïve?
They don't realise there is a seller on the other end of the transaction or they just presume the seller is a massive company rather than one person trying to do a couple of hours a day on ebay after work.
I've messaged plenty of buyers after not receiving payments following an accepted offer. Most don't reply at all but I've had plenty of messages telling me they had another offer accepted first, or got a lower offer accepted from another seller.
I've also had buyers (after I've accepted an offer) try to haggle down further, one even told me they had sent more lower offers to other sellers for the same item and would pay for mine if they all turned her down!0 -
I made 4 offers to a single seller last night , and they were all accepted without requiring immediate payment. Went immediately into my purchase history to pay and found the seller had automatically discounted the postage and I paid. Items are being shipped this morning.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.0
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I've since tried a couple of offers and not been asked for payment details, so perhaps it was a seller setting or a trial.
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Well I had a buyer two days ago that placed an offer. I rejected. He placed another slightly higher offer. I accepted. Then he didnt pay and a day later 'told' me to cancel the sale!
Now I have to wait for the next FVF discount day to relist it.
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IftiBashir said:Well I had a buyer two days ago that placed an offer. I rejected. He placed another slightly higher offer. I accepted. Then he didnt pay and a day later 'told' me to cancel the sale!
Now I have to wait for the next FVF discount day to relist it.
Annoying!0
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