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Doesn't a solicitor store/log a will
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It went to my husband's email address as he made the initial enquiry! I'm not in the habit of going into someone else's emails or having access to their password protected account!user1977 said:
Or just read the email yourself.Spendless said:
I'm going to get DH to re-read the last email about it, in case there's been a mix up.Savvy_Sue said:Hang on, I've just re-read your first post.
You're saying the solicitor sent you the wills, for YOU to sign and have witnessed. You didn't sign them with witnesses at the solicitors?
That strikes me as unusual, and potentially dangerous.
You've only got to misunderstand the instructions for signing to create a nasty mess.
Or just fail to sign - it's been known!
We were sent a draft, which we checked and corrected. Then we went to the solicitor and signed them there, with his staff witnessing them.
Are you sure you weren't sent a final draft, with the expectation you'd go to the office to sign?0 -
And yet presumably your solicitor thinks they're giving joint advice to both of you, and so would expect that you're both reading the correspondence? Alarm bells would ring for me (as a solicitor) if I found out all of my "joint" advice was being "interpreted" by one spouse to the other one, especially for something like what's going in your Will. You need to read and understand the advice too.Spendless said:
It went to my husband's email address as he made the initial enquiry! I'm not in the habit of going into someone else's emails or having access to their password protected account!user1977 said:
Or just read the email yourself.Spendless said:
I'm going to get DH to re-read the last email about it, in case there's been a mix up.Savvy_Sue said:Hang on, I've just re-read your first post.
You're saying the solicitor sent you the wills, for YOU to sign and have witnessed. You didn't sign them with witnesses at the solicitors?
That strikes me as unusual, and potentially dangerous.
You've only got to misunderstand the instructions for signing to create a nasty mess.
Or just fail to sign - it's been known!
We were sent a draft, which we checked and corrected. Then we went to the solicitor and signed them there, with his staff witnessing them.
Are you sure you weren't sent a final draft, with the expectation you'd go to the office to sign?1 -
Exactly why I said I would ask DH to re-read the email and by that I mean so I also see word for word what was sent!user1977 said:
And yet presumably your solicitor thinks they're giving joint advice to both of you, and so would expect that you're both reading the correspondence? Alarm bells would ring for me (as a solicitor) if I found out all of my "joint" advice was being "interpreted" by one spouse to the other one, especially for something like what's going in your Will. You need to read and understand the advice too.Spendless said:
It went to my husband's email address as he made the initial enquiry! I'm not in the habit of going into someone else's emails or having access to their password protected account!user1977 said:
Or just read the email yourself.Spendless said:
I'm going to get DH to re-read the last email about it, in case there's been a mix up.Savvy_Sue said:Hang on, I've just re-read your first post.
You're saying the solicitor sent you the wills, for YOU to sign and have witnessed. You didn't sign them with witnesses at the solicitors?
That strikes me as unusual, and potentially dangerous.
You've only got to misunderstand the instructions for signing to create a nasty mess.
Or just fail to sign - it's been known!
We were sent a draft, which we checked and corrected. Then we went to the solicitor and signed them there, with his staff witnessing them.
Are you sure you weren't sent a final draft, with the expectation you'd go to the office to sign?0 -
Just get him to forward it to you. That way you too have a record.
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Spendless said:
The ones we were sent and have at our house are the ones to have signed and witnessed, so there isn't a copy. Just the originals in our possession. .Mojisola said:The copies we have of our wills are photocopies of the original will.There is only ever one original will - the one you sign and have witnessed - that has to be produced to get probate.A copy isn't good enough for that, although if the original couldn't be found, it could be used in a court case to show what the testator's intentions.Once those are signed and witnessed, you can send them for storage with the Probate Office if you want to.Before sending them off, take photocopies so that you can reference what your wills say and you can show them to anyone else you want to see them.If you keep them at home, there is the risk that they are mislaid, lost in fire or flood or destroyed by someone who will inherit more under the intestacy rules.0 -
I agree it's what I'd do, but not everyone has access to a spouse's email account...user1977 said:
Or just read the email yourself.Spendless said:
I'm going to get DH to re-read the last email about it, in case there's been a mix up.Savvy_Sue said:Hang on, I've just re-read your first post.
You're saying the solicitor sent you the wills, for YOU to sign and have witnessed. You didn't sign them with witnesses at the solicitors?
That strikes me as unusual, and potentially dangerous.
You've only got to misunderstand the instructions for signing to create a nasty mess.
Or just fail to sign - it's been known!
We were sent a draft, which we checked and corrected. Then we went to the solicitor and signed them there, with his staff witnessing them.
Are you sure you weren't sent a final draft, with the expectation you'd go to the office to sign?
DH finds it's quite useful because he misses things, and I ask if he's done anything about stuff ...Signature removed for peace of mind0 -
That's correct I don't. Husband's laptop is his works one and since he also works in IT as management, no I shouldn't have or be using his password to get in. I don't know his personal email password to log in on my PC. We were out at different times to each other yesterday but I will ask him to forward the email he was sent to see if I read it in a different context.Savvy_Sue said:
I agree it's what I'd do, but not everyone has access to a spouse's email account...user1977 said:
Or just read the email yourself.Spendless said:
I'm going to get DH to re-read the last email about it, in case there's been a mix up.Savvy_Sue said:Hang on, I've just re-read your first post.
You're saying the solicitor sent you the wills, for YOU to sign and have witnessed. You didn't sign them with witnesses at the solicitors?
That strikes me as unusual, and potentially dangerous.
You've only got to misunderstand the instructions for signing to create a nasty mess.
Or just fail to sign - it's been known!
We were sent a draft, which we checked and corrected. Then we went to the solicitor and signed them there, with his staff witnessing them.
Are you sure you weren't sent a final draft, with the expectation you'd go to the office to sign?
DH finds it's quite useful because he misses things, and I ask if he's done anything about stuff ...1 -
Ok, it's not an email that's come it's a letter. This reads
' We enclose the engrossed wills for signing. Please read them carefully and be satsified that they precisely and fully record your wishes.
If satisfied please ensure that the wills re validly signed, non-compliance may result in the will being partially or wholly ineffective. If you have any questions please call us.
Once the wills have been signed, please be sure not to use pins, paper clips, or other items which may mark the documents in any way and keep them for your own safe storage'.
So yes just one will each sent to us (no copies) for us to have signed and witnessed and to store safely.
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Well there's a solicitor who likes to live dangerously ... although if the wills are uncontentious / in line with rules of intestacy then failure to sign would be less of an issue.
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Agreed. As it currently stands, we've paid out £100s to a solicitor to have a potentially invalid will. Solicitor is being contacted today about it.Savvy_Sue said:Well there's a solicitor who likes to live dangerously ... although if the wills are uncontentious / in line with rules of intestacy then failure to sign would be less of an issue.
Our will doesn't deviate from intestacy until you get to the disaster scenario, but still. We made a will for a reason (following all the threads I read on here where something has gone wrong)1
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