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Pension overpayment of partner who passed away
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Emmia said:
But yes they may not be eligible depending on scheme rules. The fact that they were sent paperwork to get a "widow(er)'s" benefit implies also that they may be entitled. Unless of course another error has been made.
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Emmia said:Brie said:I agree it would be worthwhile finding out what the widow(er)'s portion is versus the overpayment. Once you know that then you'll be able to decide what to do further.
Yes the money should be repaid. But it would be completely irresponsible of anyone to insist you do that instantly, particularly when this is not a mistake of your making and has come as a surprise months after the event. Even if it does need to be repaid that can surely be agreed to be done in increments. Whether that is by you not receiving anything for 2 years or something before your widow(er)'s pension goes into payment or by some other means then sobeit. Complain to the company, the pension administrator and the solicitors who appear to be now harassing you.
Sorry for your loss btw. It's so easy for all of us to jump on the bandwagon with advice and (sometimes unhelpful) comments we often forget that there's a person trying to cope with something life has thrown at them.
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Northstar2 said:Emmia said:Brie said:I agree it would be worthwhile finding out what the widow(er)'s portion is versus the overpayment. Once you know that then you'll be able to decide what to do further.
Yes the money should be repaid. But it would be completely irresponsible of anyone to insist you do that instantly, particularly when this is not a mistake of your making and has come as a surprise months after the event. Even if it does need to be repaid that can surely be agreed to be done in increments. Whether that is by you not receiving anything for 2 years or something before your widow(er)'s pension goes into payment or by some other means then sobeit. Complain to the company, the pension administrator and the solicitors who appear to be now harassing you.
Sorry for your loss btw. It's so easy for all of us to jump on the bandwagon with advice and (sometimes unhelpful) comments we often forget that there's a person trying to cope with something life has thrown at them.
OP I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope you can get this all resolved quickly and without too much stress.1 -
Northstar2 said:I was and is his civil partner
It sounds like he or they made a mistake at this point and they are trying to put it right so you have a survivor’s pension. I think the ideas about asking them to take the overpayment from the pension in instalments sound good.
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Sarahspangles said:Northstar2 said:I was and is his civil partner
It sounds like he or they made a mistake at this point and they are trying to put it right so you have a survivor’s pension. I think the ideas about asking them to take the overpayment from the pension in instalments sound good.
Have you had some advice about your own finances, to check if you’re entitled to any help?May I ask what do you mean I’ll be entitled to any help? Is this to pay the overpayment? I understand about solvent and insolvent estate already and how it can affect the repayment. Also pay in increments, plead for hardship, etc. anything new you are pointing out?0 -
It can be helpful to have a benefits review after someone passes away. For example if you’re below retirement age and might qualify for Bereavement Support
https://www.gov.uk/bereavement-support-payment
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Sarahspangles said:It can be helpful to have a benefits review after someone passes away. For example if you’re below retirement age and might qualify for Bereavement Support0
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Northstar2 said:Sarahspangles said:It can be helpful to have a benefits review after someone passes away. For example if you’re below retirement age and might qualify for Bereavement Support
Get yourself some free, impartial, expert and sympathetic help: https://www.moneyhelper.org.uk/en/pensions-and-retirement/pension-problems
Hopefully that route will cause you the least distress and ensure the quickest way to find a way forward.
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Hello guys again! I appreciate all your advice. Can I ask if the this pension company’s death benefit and widower’s pension scheme different?0
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Northstar2 said:Hello guys again! I appreciate all your advice. Can I ask if the this pension company’s death benefit and widower’s pension scheme different?
Reading your thread again, I wonder if the lump sum paid to your partner was a one-off payment to extinguish all their pension rights under the scheme because the scheme hadn't realised they were in a civil partnership? Until you can get a full explanation of how the overpayment arose, there's unlikely to be anything anyone here can offer to help or make you feel any better.
Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!1
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