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Bee175 said:AmityNeon said:Bee175 said:AmityNeon said:"I don't know, and neither should I. These are personal details, my own of which I would not divulge to my payees either."
The banks should perform their checks in their official capacities for AML purposes without relying on you to confirm the personal details of a third party to which you are not privy.That's exactly how I see it.
I think they have made a mistake by asking me for these details.
It almost feels as though my bank are asking me to "police" my friend.
Did your bank even consider it from the payer's perspective?
If I paid someone new and my payee then asked me for my middle name and date of birth claiming their bank requested those details, I would become highly suspicious thinking I was being phished and immediately cease all contact.
I chatted with my friend who transferred the money, and he thought this was all wrong, as do I.2 -
Bee175 said:AmityNeon said:Bee175 said:AmityNeon said:"I don't know, and neither should I. These are personal details, my own of which I would not divulge to my payees either."
The banks should perform their checks in their official capacities for AML purposes without relying on you to confirm the personal details of a third party to which you are not privy.That's exactly how I see it.
I think they have made a mistake by asking me for these details.
It almost feels as though my bank are asking me to "police" my friend.
Did your bank even consider it from the payer's perspective?
If I paid someone new and my payee then asked me for my middle name and date of birth claiming their bank requested those details, I would become highly suspicious thinking I was being phished and immediately cease all contact.
As the conversation was happening on secure bank chat on the app, I felt fairly sure I was actually talking to the bank
It's about what the payer thinks of the situation because it's their personal details being requested by a third party. If you paid someone new (i.e. not a known friend), and this payee suddenly asked you for your middle name or date of birth (claiming their bank requested it), would that not arouse your own suspicions?
Your bank doesn't seem to care they're flagrantly disregarding all the common advice and warnings to prevent fraud, effectively asking you to behave like a scammer phishing for someone's personal details.
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It is perfectly ok to be asked for the name (individual or company) of the payer. It's information you should know if you are expecting a payment.
It is not reasonable to ask for the DoB of the payer, and I would never give this to a bank even if I knew it.3 -
Bee175 said:DullGreyGuy said:Bee175 said:The bank then proceeded to ask me for the senders full name and date of birth before completing the transaction. They already had his name, but I was pretty cautious about the idea of giving them my friends DOB.
Surely they are not allowed to ask me for someone else's personal details?
I refused to give them the details, and asked them to return the money to the sender, which they did right away.
I have since told them that I believe what they asked of me was borderline illegal, and they have now stopped talking to me
What do others think about them asking me for someone else's personal details?
They are perfectly entitled to ask you questions, banks are legally required to do sanctions and counter terrorism checks on transactions and the reality is there are a few thousand people on the UK Government published list (more if you also have to comply with US and EU sanctions) and there is going to be more than one person in the world with the same first and surname. The sanctions list inc middle names and DoB so having these to check makes it much easier to determine if your friend "Oleg" is one of the 70 or so that are subject to asset freeze or not.
Same with DOB. They should check with the sender's bank.
They surely cannot expect me to know everyone's DOB and middle names? That would be totally unreasonable. How would they know I'm not lying? My bank would not have my friends DOB to compare too, unless the sender's bank are willing to share it with them. They're talking to the wrong guy by asking me.
"They're perfectly entitled to ask me questions".
I couldn't agree more, but no point asking me stuff I simply won't know.
All they should be asking me about is whether I'm expecting the payment, or have requested the payment. Beyond that it's up to them to check out the sender and his bank, or at least that's how it has always worked in the past when other banks have put a payment on review.
If you have asked for the payment or not is irrelevant to if the sender is a sanctioned person4 -
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Out of interest what type of payment was this? It would be more usual for this type of query to be raised for payments coming from abroad, than from other UK banks.
I wonder if the person you were speaking to has got the wrong end of the stick. Even if you gave a DoB I don't see how it would help since you could be making it up. I wonder if actually something else was needed (like an explanation of what the payment was for) and the person on chat got confused?0 -
Vortigern said:Which bank is this?
Simple answer to both questions is "I don't know" - because I don't know all my friends middle names and dates of birth.
I wonder if OP's is same bank 🤔0 -
AmityNeon said:Bee175 said:AmityNeon said:Bee175 said:AmityNeon said:"I don't know, and neither should I. These are personal details, my own of which I would not divulge to my payees either."
The banks should perform their checks in their official capacities for AML purposes without relying on you to confirm the personal details of a third party to which you are not privy.That's exactly how I see it.
I think they have made a mistake by asking me for these details.
It almost feels as though my bank are asking me to "police" my friend.
Did your bank even consider it from the payer's perspective?
If I paid someone new and my payee then asked me for my middle name and date of birth claiming their bank requested those details, I would become highly suspicious thinking I was being phished and immediately cease all contact.
As the conversation was happening on secure bank chat on the app, I felt fairly sure I was actually talking to the bank
It's about what the payer thinks of the situation because it's their personal details being requested by a third party. If you paid someone new (i.e. not a known friend), and this payee suddenly asked you for your middle name or date of birth (claiming their bank requested it), would that not arouse your own suspicions?
Your bank doesn't seem to care they're flagrantly disregarding all the common advice and warnings to prevent fraud, effectively asking you to behave like a scammer phishing for someone's personal details.
Phishing is on my list of suspicions. A rouge worker in their call centre perhaps?2
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