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Sarah1Mitty2 said:MobileSaver said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:MobileSaver said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:[Deleted User] said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:[Deleted User] said:Sunsaru said:My only advice is to set yourself some goals and work towards that. Set yourself a 'light at the end of the tunnel' and go for it. If it means keeping your head down at you parents then just focus on that light. You're a big boy now and your life is your own.
If you believe that the government or the next one will actually do something meaningful to fix this, that's probably 4-5 years away minimum.Sarah1Mitty2 said:inflated property prices were designed to make bankers big bonuses, nothing at all to do with shortage of houses.Oh dear, official mortgage statistics show that most of those people fixed their rates for at least five years so those people will be laughing all the way to the bank for at least the next three years!Imagine if instead they'd listened to the HPC crowd and sold to rent 14 years ago; they'd now be facing ever increasing rental costs, finding it harder than ever to move to a new rental and will probably never now be able to afford to buy their own home.The sad reality is that for some their fundamental financial mistake was pointed out to them years ago but they thought they knew best and are now paying the price by probably spending the rest of their lives renting a bedsit in an undesirable part of town.
Every generation blames the one before...
Mike + The Mechanics - The Living Years2 -
Sarah1Mitty2 said:MobileSaver said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:[Deleted User] said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:[Deleted User] said:Sunsaru said:My only advice is to set yourself some goals and work towards that. Set yourself a 'light at the end of the tunnel' and go for it. If it means keeping your head down at you parents then just focus on that light. You're a big boy now and your life is your own.
If you believe that the government or the next one will actually do something meaningful to fix this, that's probably 4-5 years away minimum.Sarah1Mitty2 said:inflated property prices were designed to make bankers big bonuses, nothing at all to do with shortage of houses.
No government is ever going to allow a significant reduction in house prices as it would be electoral suicide. That's why it never happens.
This is always the main problem with the HPC crowd's analysis -- failing to appreciate the role of politics. The "housing market" is barely a market at all it is so consistently interfered with by governments. House prices are what they are because that's what politicians want them to be, even if they don't admit it. Everything else including interest rates are secondary factors that -- over the time frame of a typical mortgage -- are irrelevant.0 -
MobileSaver said:Imagine if instead they'd listened to the HPC crowd and sold to rent 14 years ago; they'd now be facing ever increasing rental costs, finding it harder than ever to move to a new rental and will probably never now be able to afford to buy their own home.
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I've been following this thread for quite some time now and think it's pretty obvious the OP doesn't want to move out. Their head and their heart seem to be in different places. Many of the things said recently have been said umpteen times over the past 4 months / 23 pages, the OP will continue to move the goalposts and create arbitrary criteria until they address the underlying issues first.
Are they anxious about being alone? Scared of change? Fear they'll make the wrong decision or regret their choice of house? Worried about upsetting parents? I'm not sure, maybe a bit of each.
As others have pointed out, they have a staggeringly large amount of savings, they could move out tomorrow if they truly wished to.Know what you don't6 -
Emily_Joy said:MobileSaver said:Imagine if instead they'd listened to the HPC crowd and sold to rent 14 years ago; they'd now be facing ever increasing rental costs, finding it harder than ever to move to a new rental and will probably never now be able to afford to buy their own home.
They've benefited from the lowest interest rates ever and asset appreciation to boot.
Some are now mortgage free, some have multiple properties.
Imagine, mortgage paid before you're 40. No rent to pay and secure in the knowledge that you have a home for life.
Just offering another perspective...2 -
Emily_Joy said:MobileSaver said:Imagine if instead they'd listened to the HPC crowd and sold to rent 14 years ago; they'd now be facing ever increasing rental costs, finding it harder than ever to move to a new rental and will probably never now be able to afford to buy their own home.I can't believe there are that many graduates who chose to rent instead of buy for the last 14 years.Those that did must be absolutely kicking themselves now since house prices have increased 70% over that time which is obviously diametrically opposite to the 50% fall in prices that Crashy and other HPC zealots convinced themselves was going to happen.
Every generation blames the one before...
Mike + The Mechanics - The Living Years1 -
spoovy said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:MobileSaver said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:[Deleted User] said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:[Deleted User] said:Sunsaru said:My only advice is to set yourself some goals and work towards that. Set yourself a 'light at the end of the tunnel' and go for it. If it means keeping your head down at you parents then just focus on that light. You're a big boy now and your life is your own.
If you believe that the government or the next one will actually do something meaningful to fix this, that's probably 4-5 years away minimum.Sarah1Mitty2 said:inflated property prices were designed to make bankers big bonuses, nothing at all to do with shortage of houses.
No government is ever going to allow a significant reduction in house prices as it would be electoral suicide. That's why it never happens.
This is always the main problem with the HPC crowd's analysis -- failing to appreciate the role of politics. The "housing market" is barely a market at all it is so consistently interfered with by governments. House prices are what they are because that's what politicians want them to be, even if they don't admit it. Everything else including interest rates are secondary factors that -- over the time frame of a typical mortgage -- are irrelevant.0 -
Exodi said:I've been following this thread for quite some time now and think it's pretty obvious the OP doesn't want to move out. Their head and their heart seem to be in different places. Many of the things said recently have been said umpteen times over the past 4 months / 23 pages, the OP will continue to move the goalposts and create arbitrary criteria until they address the underlying issues first.
Are they anxious about being alone? Scared of change? Fear they'll make the wrong decision or regret their choice of house? Worried about upsetting parents? I'm not sure, maybe a bit of each.
As others have pointed out, they have a staggeringly large amount of savings, they could move out tomorrow if they truly wished to.0 -
Sarah1Mitty2 said:Exodi said:I've been following this thread for quite some time now and think it's pretty obvious the OP doesn't want to move out. Their head and their heart seem to be in different places. Many of the things said recently have been said umpteen times over the past 4 months / 23 pages, the OP will continue to move the goalposts and create arbitrary criteria until they address the underlying issues first.
Are they anxious about being alone? Scared of change? Fear they'll make the wrong decision or regret their choice of house? Worried about upsetting parents? I'm not sure, maybe a bit of each.
As others have pointed out, they have a staggeringly large amount of savings, they could move out tomorrow if they truly wished to.
Similarly, investing in whatever index-linked special-money fund that you keep talking about, if you choose to do so, is not wasting it either.
Adults make choices and then live by the consequences of those choices, whether we would have made the same choice or not.3 -
CSI_Yorkshire said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:Exodi said:I've been following this thread for quite some time now and think it's pretty obvious the OP doesn't want to move out. Their head and their heart seem to be in different places. Many of the things said recently have been said umpteen times over the past 4 months / 23 pages, the OP will continue to move the goalposts and create arbitrary criteria until they address the underlying issues first.
Are they anxious about being alone? Scared of change? Fear they'll make the wrong decision or regret their choice of house? Worried about upsetting parents? I'm not sure, maybe a bit of each.
As others have pointed out, they have a staggeringly large amount of savings, they could move out tomorrow if they truly wished to.
Similarly, investing in whatever index-linked special-money fund that you keep talking about, if you choose to do so, is not wasting it either.
Adults make choices and then live by the consequences of those choices, whether we would have made the same choice or not.0
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