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  • If there is a complete smoking ban, then I hope the facilities and support networks  for helping people give up is put in place.  Nicotine is very addictive and many people need help.

    (I am an ex-smoker who has now not smoked for over thirty years and now hate it, but I do remember the addiction and how hard it was to stop).
  • diystarter7 said:

    An option I had forgotten about may be a solution is build an extension to max height right up to the fend and have sealed windows nearest to next door and windows that open on the other side.

    Thanks


    That seems very extreme for a bit of cigarette smoke!

  • I remember a thread where someone's neighbour had a hot tub and it was causing them noise distress. They put some comfrey and water in a lidded container which stinks when it starts to rot and whenever the hot tub was used they took the lid off and it soon stopped them using the hot tub.

    Might be something to consider every time the neighbour has a cigarette by the back door  :D  
    Hi
    I know you are not being serious but that was funny, lol.

    An option I had forgotten about may be a solution is build an extension to max height right up to the fend and have sealed windows nearest to next door and windows that open on the other side.

    Thanks



    If you have a fence between you, could you make it higher, add some trellis & dense plants, high bamboo, a sail or something?  It might be enough to deflect the smells away or reduce them a bit.

    Yes there is a fence between us and the back doors are quite close together. Thanks for the trellis / dense plants suggestion I will look into this!

    Reminds me when Homer makes that webpage and it opens with a barking dog 😆😆 
    The Mr X episode - this made my chuckle!

    As has been suggested you don't say what the actual set up is but could you put a physical barrier in the space between your houses?
    The back doors are quite close together and there is a fence between them.
    Skiddaw1 said:

    As I say, it wouldn't bother me but again, to be fair, the OP didn't indicate they'd asked the neighbour not to smoke on their own property- only if said neighbour could perhaps move a little further away from OP's door/window when so doing. I don't think I'd have an issue if I was asked to do that (though I agree that cooking smells is a different issue altogether).
    All I mentioned was the smoke is coming through my back windows and door.



    An option I had forgotten about may be a solution is build an extension to max height right up to the fend and have sealed windows nearest to next door and windows that open on the other side.



    Thanks for the suggestion - an extension would be really pricey and then there is planning permission etc. 
  • diystarter7 said:

    An option I had forgotten about may be a solution is build an extension to max height right up to the fend and have sealed windows nearest to next door and windows that open on the other side.

    Thanks


    That seems very extreme for a bit of cigarette smoke!

    Though it is a step down from the earlier suggestion of buying a detached house with 16 acres of free space on each side, to avoid a bit of ciggy smoke and, presumably, the smell of garlic bread, or something. (Just avoid rural detached, if smells are offensive; definitely avoid anywhere near a pig farm.)

  • diystarter7
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    I remember a thread where someone's neighbour had a hot tub and it was causing them noise distress. They put some comfrey and water in a lidded container which stinks when it starts to rot and whenever the hot tub was used they took the lid off and it soon stopped them using the hot tub.

    Might be something to consider every time the neighbour has a cigarette by the back door  :D  
    Hi
    I know you are not being serious but that was funny, lol.

    An option I had forgotten about may be a solution is build an extension to max height right up to the fend and have sealed windows nearest to next door and windows that open on the other side.

    Thanks



    If you have a fence between you, could you make it higher, add some trellis & dense plants, high bamboo, a sail or something?  It might be enough to deflect the smells away or reduce them a bit.

    Yes there is a fence between us and the back doors are quite close together. Thanks for the trellis / dense plants suggestion I will look into this!

    Reminds me when Homer makes that webpage and it opens with a barking dog 😆😆 
    The Mr X episode - this made my chuckle!

    As has been suggested you don't say what the actual set up is but could you put a physical barrier in the space between your houses?
    The back doors are quite close together and there is a fence between them.
    Skiddaw1 said:

    As I say, it wouldn't bother me but again, to be fair, the OP didn't indicate they'd asked the neighbour not to smoke on their own property- only if said neighbour could perhaps move a little further away from OP's door/window when so doing. I don't think I'd have an issue if I was asked to do that (though I agree that cooking smells is a different issue altogether).
    All I mentioned was the smoke is coming through my back windows and door.



    An option I had forgotten about may be a solution is build an extension to max height right up to the fend and have sealed windows nearest to next door and windows that open on the other side.



    Thanks for the suggestion - an extension would be really pricey and then there is planning permission etc. 

    Hi
    Thanks, so what is the solution?  I do feel for you.


    You could wait it out and as per my posts about banning smoking gradually or more quickly, read this today

    https://www.thesun.co.uk/money/16208308/pre-payment-meter-top-up-energy-bills/#:~:text=The price cap varies on,those paying by direct debit.

    Thanks
  • Alderbank said:
    elsien said:
    I wonder what enforcement agencies would be forcing their way into people's private property on the grounds they are having a cigarette? 
    The enforcement agencies successfully stopped people smoking menthol cigarettes. 'Cool as a mountain stream', they were once very popular.
    They did this not by forcing their way into people's houses to catch them smoking menthol cigarettes but by the simpler action of banning the sale or importation of them.

    They could do the same for other cigarettes if they were minded to.
    Yes if it happens, then there would be a ban on sales, they are looking to go the NZ way.
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    edited 12 May at 3:26PM
    diystarter7 said:

    An option I had forgotten about may be a solution is build an extension to max height right up to the fend and have sealed windows nearest to next door and windows that open on the other side.

    Thanks


    That seems very extreme for a bit of cigarette smoke!

    Though it is a step down from the earlier suggestion of buying a detached house with 16 acres of free space on each side, to avoid a bit of ciggy smoke and, presumably, the smell of garlic bread, or something. (Just avoid rural detached, if smells are offensive; definitely avoid anywhere near a pig farm.)


    Our occasional whiff of eau de pigfarm is definitely preferable to a friend's eau de (human) sewage farm !
  • Morglin
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    It looks as though any sort of ban has been kicked into the long grass, for at least an extra 10 years, because of the cost of it stopping.  Taxes would need to rise a lot to make up the shortfall.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-11579111/Government-DECADE-target-England-smoke-free-2030.html
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  • jrawle
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    Morglin said:
    It looks as though any sort of ban has been kicked into the long grass, for at least an extra 10 years, because of the cost of it stopping.  Taxes would need to rise a lot to make up the shortfall.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-11579111/Government-DECADE-target-England-smoke-free-2030.html
    Fortunetely, we won't have the same government for "an extra 10 years".



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