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  • sevenhills
    sevenhills Posts: 5,938 Forumite
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    I have recently purchased a house and a neighbour issue has occurred. Unfortunately, my next door neighbour is a smoker and does it by the back door throughout the day, the smell then lingers into my kitchen, back bedroom and also the bathroom ☹ On top of that I get the cooking smells from the back door on top of the cigarette smoke!

    I have to keep the windows and back door closed to stop the odour coming in (dreading the summer).

    Are you a vegan? Never heard anyone objecting to cooking smells before, unless it's a business.
  • diystarter7
    diystarter7 Posts: 5,202 Forumite
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    I have recently purchased a house and a neighbour issue has occurred. Unfortunately, my next door neighbour is a smoker and does it by the back door throughout the day, the smell then lingers into my kitchen, back bedroom and also the bathroom ☹ On top of that I get the cooking smells from the back door on top of the cigarette smoke!

    I have to keep the windows and back door closed to stop the odour coming in (dreading the summer).

    Are you a vegan? Never heard anyone objecting to cooking smells before, unless it's a business.
    Hi

    I'm very fussy and Mrs Diy refers to me as a "hypocrite" when t comes t food smells, eG not complain re ones i do not mind and compalin like made ones i don't/

    We do not have garlic in the house unless i want want garlic bread - friend onions a non, no unless i have a hotdog

    We never do fresh fish cooking that really reaks out anyones house even from 4 doors away.

    We have a very powerful extractor and any, all cooking door is closed properly and extractor runs on for a long time after cooking and washing finished.

    So we are all different


    A house where we lived in years ago, next doors kitchen was on the other wnd of the house to ours but when they did fish, it was windows slammed sut, doors closed etc etc time and freshair
    Thanks
  • Jonboy_1984
    Jonboy_1984 Posts: 1,233 Forumite
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    When we moved into our previous flat my partner smoked on the very sheltered (from prevailing wind and rain) patio, often having a chat with the tenants above who were smoking out their window, everyone happy.

    When the above flat sold the new owners were not smokers. If they had knocked on the door and discussed it like adults, my partner would likely have moved slightly further away from the building  and we could have made some sort of arrangement for shelter for her. 

    Instead they took straight to slamming the windows, discussing very loudly how smokers should die a slow painful death without ANY NHS healthcare and making calls on speaker phone as to how that selfish #£&*()g &*£/* was doing it again…so she stayed put….
  • theoretica
    theoretica Posts: 12,691 Forumite
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    You might also like to try some of the odour neutralisers - baking soda and lemon juice, or whatever looks nicest to you.
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  • Thank you all for your feedback regarding my issue.

    Regarding some of the cooking comments I have never experienced the cooking coming through the back door before. These days people usually have extractor fans so I wasn't expecting this and it took me by surprise.

    I can't tolerate the smell of cigarettes and to be inhaling passing smoke coming into the house is not what I want. If I knew this was going to be the case I would have not purchased the house and it would saved the aggro. It would be nice to open the windows to air the rooms out as the back bedroom and bathroom have been recently plastered.

    I have tried discussing the issue in a friendly way to find a resolution however she didn't want to know.

  • diystarter7
    diystarter7 Posts: 5,202 Forumite
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    When we moved into our previous flat my partner smoked on the very sheltered (from prevailing wind and rain) patio, often having a chat with the tenants above who were smoking out their window, everyone happy.

    When the above flat sold the new owners were not smokers. If they had knocked on the door and discussed it like adults, my partner would likely have moved slightly further away from the building  and we could have made some sort of arrangement for shelter for her. 

    Instead they took straight to slamming the windows, discussing very loudly how smokers should die a slow painful death without ANY NHS healthcare and making calls on speaker phone as to how that selfish #£&*()g &*£/* was doing it again…so she stayed put….
    Hi

    Flats/apartments, shelter places in blocks - I know someone in a sheltered scheme and hardly anyone comes but one of the T's there is a chain smoker and does not open their windows or goes out for a smoke and walking near, living nest door is horrible and people have moved out because of that person. Credit to the smoker I'm advised the has tried to stop but can't.. Not sure why he does not open windows etc but i guess it could be those above  and sides to him complaining.

    IMO, most smokers will take offence if they are told to move further on their own property.

    I hate smells so  much I wish I did not and even driving behind a car in summer that has their windows open and smoking in stactic and or slow-moving traffic the smell gets to me and i keep a bigger gap even though my car is supposed to have all of those filters for clean air etc.

    Thanks
  • housebuyer143
    housebuyer143 Posts: 4,265 Forumite
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    edited 10 January 2023 at 9:10PM
    Thank you all for your feedback regarding my issue.

    Regarding some of the cooking comments I have never experienced the cooking coming through the back door before. These days people usually have extractor fans so I wasn't expecting this and it took me by surprise.

    I can't tolerate the smell of cigarettes and to be inhaling passing smoke coming into the house is not what I want. If I knew this was going to be the case I would have not purchased the house and it would saved the aggro. It would be nice to open the windows to air the rooms out as the back bedroom and bathroom have been recently plastered.

    I have tried discussing the issue in a friendly way to find a resolution however she didn't want to know.

    .
    I despise the smell of smoke and this year my neighbour has a log burner... It reeks of smoke esp on very cold days, if I go outside my hair comes back in stinking like I have been in a nightclub pre smoking ban. 
    It's annoying but I would never dream of asking the neighbour to stop using the log burner. I just shut my window and try to ingore the gross smell lingering in my hair from my lovely walk in the "fresh air".
    Cooking smells is one that you need to ignore. People need to cook and it goes without saying they will be venting then outside one way or another. 

    If you go to environmental health you can expect relations to sour more than they have, so I wouldn't recommend it. I imagine they can do a lot worse than quietly smoking out the back in the garden.
  • HampshireH
    HampshireH Posts: 4,941 Forumite
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    I really cannot see how this will be resolved. As you say the neighbour is entitled to smoke by their back door.

    This is the risk you run of buying an attached house and not a detached property with space round it.


    The seller probably didn't have any neighbour issues. It probably never bothered them to become one.
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