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Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Thread part 18

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  • dustydigger
    dustydigger Posts: 1,526 Forumite
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    edited 30 September 2024 at 11:52PM
    Hi people. 30/24 for September.I am amazed I stuck out the whole month. But if I had caved in once,it would have been the whole month without an AFD
    Early in September Mr Dusty was just sitting watching TV at 6.30 pm. He started to stretch out his body and suddenly went into convulsion,similar to epilepsy. It was terrifying especially when he went unconscious. He's .never had fits beforeRushed to hospital,he had suffered bleeding on the brain clot between brain and skull. He was in hospital nearly a fortnight.massive cognitive decline,needed help with dressing and feeding him. He became very unruly and desperate being in hospital,but he is home now,much calmer,but English speech has almost gone now.He tries to do all his own tasks,but when he dresses he puts his trousers and tshirtson back to front,or wears 2 pairs of underpants. Now finds it difficult to follow even simple commands,and spends many hours sleeping.
     because of anticonvulsion meds. as well as his normal chemostuff to batten down the growth of platelets in his blood. Together they are causing him to sleep a lot . He is losing weight,no wonder after his hospital stay,and I have been told to fortify his meals to be high protein and iron rich because of his anaemia.. Thank goodness he still loves his beloved roast potatoes.And his peanut butter. He eats a good breakfast and dinner but doesnt want to eat in the evening,and sleeps from about 12 hours
    Much extra time is needed now helping him with mundane tasks,but he still understands some tv,and enjoys music,though communication is almost impossible. We keep on plodding,
    I am now up to 244 AFD days for the year,I would dearly love to reach my 300 day yearly  goal.If I can avoid having a total breakdown and going on  a binge.Fingers crossed.
    Iwill put down my usual 24 day goal for October.I usually manage well,but as you may imagine,this month had special temptations,but I held strong,and no big birthday bashes in October. September was crazy on the birthday front,no less than seven events in all.!
  • marahouti
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    dustydigger that must be unimaginably hard I am so sorry. I hope you have family support as well as medical. Thinking of you 🫂.

    cathybird I finished the month on 30/30 so I too haven't had an alcoholic drink for six months. X
  • cathybird
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    edited 1 October 2024 at 9:05PM
    September AFD challenge

    7 days = image

    14 days = image

    21 days = image

    28 days = image

    Target reached = image

    Target beaten = image

    Entire month = image



    September targets


    AllNightDiner TF 


    Arkers TF 


    BlueJ94 21/29  image  image  image


    cathybird 28/21  image  image  image  image  image  image 


    CuppaTea 2/TF 


    dustydigger 30/24  image  image  image  image  image  image  image


    lantanna 13/15   image 


    leftatthetrafficlights 4/24 


    maggiem 10/15   image 


    maman 15/10  image  image  image  image


    marahouti 30/25  image  image  image  image  image  image  image


    MissMaud 1/25 


    oceandreamer 13/10  image  image  image


    PriceySOS 24/23  image  image  image  image  image 


    RobM99 30/29   image  image  image  image  image  image  image


    satchmo1 17/14   image  image  image  image


    Season of Mist 30/30   image  image  image  image  image  image


    Shaggydoo 10/16   image 


    Shrewbie 30/30   image  image  image  image  image  image


    sukeyboo 15/10   image  image  image  image


    tiddles 22/25   image  image  image 


    Watty1 24/23   image  image  image  image  image


    WBF 11/14   image 





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  • cathybird
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    edited 1 October 2024 at 9:07PM
    Annual AFD challenge 2024

    50 days = image

    100 days = image

    150 days = image

    200 days = image

    250 days = image

    300 days = image

    Target reached = image

    Target beaten = image


    2024 targets


    AllNightDiner   54/122   image


    cathybird   235/300   image  image   image  image


    dustydigger   244/300   image  image   image  image


    lantanna   121/230   image  image  


    leftatthetrafficlights   123/288   image  image  


    maggiem   148/150   image  image  


    maman   134/TF   image  image  


    marahouti   273/325   image  image   image   image   image


    oceandreamer   105/250   image  image  


    PriceySOS   211/TF   image  image   image   image


    RobM99   272/350   image  image   image   image   image


    sukeyboo   129/TF   image  image  


    WBF   70/120   image 




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  • cathybird
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    edited 1 October 2024 at 9:08PM
    September results updated here, October results updated here and annual results updated here :)
  • cathybird
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    edited 1 October 2024 at 10:26AM
    @dustydigger that sounds absolutely awful for both you and Mr Dusty. Well done on sticking to the AFDs under the circumstances xx 
  • sukeyboo
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    @dustydigger sounds like you have had an awful time of it - thinking of you and Mr Dusty.

    I did stay AF yesterday so finished September on 15/10 please cathybird 
  • maman
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    Snap @sukeyboo! I, too, finished September on 15/10 AFDs after an unexpected evening out yesterday.

    There were many amazing scores last month and you definitely deserve a special mention along with @dustydigger. 👏👏👏

    Getting off to a start today. 

    1/10 AFDs please@cathybird 
  • satchmo1
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    Starting October with 1/20 and I'm hoping to at least make target. I'm taking my sister to see Paul Carrack for her birthday on Sunday, which we will both enjoy. 

    Hugs @dustydigger

    What would you get if all you got was what you were thankful for?
  • tiddles
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    I finished September with 22/25 AF days - not quite as good as I’d hoped.

    I’d like to aim for 24 days in October please, if I haven’t stated this already.
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