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Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Thread part 18

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  • 13/10 today (well yesterday) please Cathybird
  • 24 September total please
    25 October target please
    Thanks xx
  • sukeyboo
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    A rare AF Saturday for me which takes me to 14/10 please cathybird. Hoping for one more on Monday to round off September. 

    Thanks for adding me to the October list @cathybird and to all of you for the support you have given me over the last couple of weeks when things were very difficult for me, with special thanks to @Watty1 who gave me lots of very sound advice.
  • maggiem
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    Also a rare AF Saturday for me so 9/15 please. Hoping to get into double figures at least on Monday as entertaining today. 

    Well done @sukeyboo for your amazing success in very difficult circumstances. Hope things ate improving for you and/or you have a good exit plan in place. 
  • cathybird
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    edited 30 September 2024 at 3:59PM
    September AFD challenge

    7 days = image

    14 days = image

    21 days = image

    28 days = image

    Target reached = image

    Target beaten = image

    Entire month = image



    September targets


    AllNightDiner TF 


    Arkers TF 


    BlueJ94 21/29  image  image  image


    cathybird 26/21  image  image  image  image  image 


    CuppaTea 2/TF 


    dustydigger 24 


    lantanna 13/15   image 


    leftatthetrafficlights 4/24 


    maggiem 9/15   image 


    maman 15/10  image  image  image  image


    marahouti 29/25  image  image  image  image  image  image 


    MissMaud 1/25 


    oceandreamer 13/10  image  image  image


    PriceySOS 24/23  image  image  image  image  image 


    RobM99 27/29   image  image  image


    satchmo1 16/14   image  image  image  image


    Season of Mist 30/30   image  image  image  image  image  image


    Shaggydoo 10/16   image 


    Shrewbie 27/30   image  image  image


    sukeyboo 13/10   image  image  image  image


    tiddles 21/25   image  image  image 


    Watty1 22/23   image  image  image


    WBF 11/14   image 





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  • cathybird
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    September results updated here :):)
  • cathybird
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    image

    Yes it's a bright shiny new month just round the corner ... Any thoughts on targets?

    October targets

    AllNightDiner TF 

    Arkers TF 

    BlueJ94  

    cathybird 21 

    CuppaTea  

    dustydigger  

    lantanna 15  

    leftatthetrafficlights 24  

    maggiem 10 

    maman 10 

    marahouti 25 

    MissMaud  

    oceandreamer 16 

    PriceySOS 25 

    RobM99 30  

    satchmo1 20  

    Season of Mist  

    Shaggydoo 31  

    Shrewbie  

    sukeyboo 10  

    tiddles 24 

    Watty1 23  

    WBF  




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  • maman
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    Thanks for putting me on the October list @cathybird and I, too, had an AF Saturday @sukeyboo! 🤗

    15/10 AFDs please 
  • marahouti
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    29/25 please cathybird thank you. X
  • Way to go, sukeyboo - great work. 

    I’m declaring at 30/30 for today thank you cathybird. Definitely won’t be drinking today as it will mark 6 complete months AF - I’ve had no alcohol at all in Apr, May, June, July, Aug, Sept (plus an odd week at the end of March). I’ve only had seven non-dry days this calendar year and we are now up to day 274.

    i have said before that really, this is about as much as I can cut it down, without giving up alcohol completely. This thread has and continues to be a massive help to me. Thank you, cathybird, for looking after things for us.

    I joined this site in 2018 and read this ‘cutting down / giving up’ thread for a while before joining in, since that time my accounts look something like this:

    2018 - 3 months in a row AF
    2019 - 6 consecutive months AF
    2020 - drank on one occasion between April and November (was determined that I was not going to drink through lockdown)
    2021 - 6 months AF
    2022 - 6 months AF
    2023 - 6 months AF
    2024 - 6 months AF

    That represents a whole lot of dry days over the last 6 years! Entirely due to reading this thread.

    I’ve typed that list of years and numbers out, not to show how pleased I am with my progress or as a comparison to how anybody else is doing, but rather as a sort of affirmation to myself more than anything that it is possible to have these long, dry stretches where I just do not need to drink anything at all. 

    To anyone reading this who would like to cut down on what they drink, and is wondering if they can do it, I would just like to say this: 

    I drank far too much, for far too long. 

    It is never too late to cut down on drinking.

    Not drinking can become a habit too.

    This thread is massively helpful and the other posters are an inspiration - thank you all.





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