Could it escalate?

Greg89

Someone said I work in software (which I dont)

That person who heard it say do I work in software.

I've never said, stated or written in any message I work in software.

They said 'i thought you did.'

If they go to action fraud or the police saying I do, I heard this, then the burden of proof is on then 

Sncjw

For god sake man..

All you need to do to say no if anyone asks or mentions it you correct then. 

Why all these posts about going to action fraud or the police?

Greg89

Sncjw said:

For god sake man..

All you need to do to say no if anyone asks or mentions it you correct then. 

Why all these posts about going to action fraud or the police?

They could be say someone said it or on my profile I put I studied IT and use that as proof. Although not completed that degree.

[Deleted User]

Greg you have been told to ignore it, the police don't care what you put on your profile. No one cares. No one can use it against you, certainly not anyone who would pursue a legal case. You need to talk to someone for help with your obvious anxiety. 

74jax

Greg89 said:

Someone said I work in software (which I dont)

That person who heard it say do I work in software.

I've never said, stated or written in any message I work in software.

They said 'i thought you did.'

If they go to action fraud or the police saying I do, I heard this, then the burden of proof is on then 

You have been asking the same question since 2020 - 

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6393119/would-i-be-ok-to-say-this#latest 

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6392066/can-they/p1 

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6194170/can-the-police-come-if-they-think-or-itent#latest 

Have another read through these threads, nothing has changed.

I agree with purbeck14 and it may be beneficial to speak to someone for anxiety.  If after 2 years you are still worried about the same thing - change it.... Otherwise in 2 years you will still be worrying. 

Greg89

Thank you guys, I'll seek help from a therapist, counselling for my anxieties. I've been bullied, picked on, manipulated behind my back and hence my mindset is like this. Very heightened but understandable.

[Deleted User]

Start by talking to your doctor he can refer you for counselling, but that may take a while as waiting lists are probably quite long. In the meantime find ways to distract yourself from the particular worry, go for a walk,  play a video game, take up a hobby etc. Remove yourself from the people who stress you.

Greg89

Cheers.

There are people who say I cannot study IT and they say how.

Thank you, I'll go to my doctor and refer. I'll take your suggestions on board.

Pollycat

Greg89 said:

Someone said I work in software (which I dont)

That person who heard it say do I work in software.

I've never said, stated or written in any message I work in software.

They said 'i thought you did.'

If they go to action fraud or the police saying I do, I heard this, then the burden of proof is on then 

If you have never said or written that you 'we Ork in software', what did you think Action Fraud or the Police can do?
How can it escalate?
You need to stop obsessing about things.
As I said in your other thread, you also need to stop reacting to pressure from your family.
Yes, you need to see your GP.
And listen to what he/she says and put that advice into practice.
Be honest about the bullying and be honest about your retaliation to the bullying.
The answers you are looking for will not be found on this forum.

born_again

Greg89 said:

Thank you guys, I'll seek help from a therapist, counselling for my anxieties. I've been bullied, picked on, manipulated behind my back and hence my mindset is like this. Very heightened but understandable.

Best bet, do not put anything in your profile. 👍

Greg89

Thank you very much guys for your support, much appreciated, I'll go to my GP, get myself referred.

I'm getting myself a new Xbox and joining some groups out of interest.