Diary of a 30-something idiot

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  • Kim_13
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    edited 20 March 2024 at 7:17PM
    warby68 said:
    Popping in to nag a bit but make sure the Boots spends, even though small, get knocked off the budget allocations. Not sure what the appropriate categories are on your budget but guessing groceries might cover the chemist item and clothes for the tights. Great bargain there btw. A good budget makes sure you have enough money for the month so you can pick things like this up.
    Health pot would be the usual one, but can see how there wouldn’t be a health pot as prescriptions are free in Wales.

    £40 for clothes doesn’t seem unreasonable as Mini Fox also needs things at the minute. 

    Premium Bonds keep the money more out of the way than a standard savings account - no notice required as such, but it does take a day or so to get the money. 
  • MFWannabe
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    I wrote a big reply and its all gone because I closed the wrong tab by mistake. I ought to stop titting around on here when I'm supposed to be working, but it is helpful. 

    DVLA is the van tax - should actually be £12.25 - I didn't spot that when I was updating everything. Insurance wise, I have until October before the van insurance is up for renewal, so at that point I will see about paying for the year up front. There is £800 in the 'van' pot currently, and if we manage to sell it / px with a smaller one, then I would like to pay that cost upfront. 

    RAC is invididual cover, not vehicle cover. It covers Mr Fox whatever vehicle he is in, and it was £13 initially but the costs keep going up and up. I've got 3 months free but not until next year. 

    I would love the clothes to be Vinted funded entirely - sell £40 worth and spend £40 worth. A revolving door of £40. My downfall has been Vinted. It's brilliant for getting rid of things and making some money, but it's also really bad because it's essentially a charity shop that I can search. I keep seeing things on there that I would love, or would have loved when I was younger and poorer, only now I have adult money and my mum doesn't judge my outfit choices. Dangerous. Hence needing to set that at £40, otherwise I can fall in a wormhole and then its game over. I would like to try Porject 333 but need some time to figure out what I'd pick for my items! And it's still too cold and wet to start the "Spring" category.

    The rest of my hobbies are really pretty low cost. I love to read, but I get all my books for free, and book club is only £2.50 a month, when I do go. Sea swimming, again, is free. I found an extension on Firefox that blocks ads on Youtube, so as long as I watch on my laptop, I can carry on not paying for it. I have enough cross-stitch kits to keep me going through the apocalypse. 

    The only thing I really miss is having my nails done. But I am trying to get behind doing my own nail care. It's been about two years since I last had a set done. I don't compromise on my brand of oat milk, or using liquid hand soap instead of a bar, and I have a diet coke habit that is strictly limited to a can a day. But most other things have fallen by the wayside.

    Amazon Prime is still going currently, I did cancel it, but then we brought it back as the one thing we couldn't find cheaper after subscribe and save discounts was filter coffee and razor heads. Plus the entirety of House is on Prime Video, I use Kindle First Reads for my one free book a month from them, and we use the perks from Amazon Gaming towards PS games/Pokemon Go. 

    On lunch today I went to Boots to get some more spot patches as my skin has been really bad recently, and they had shapewear 60 denier tights on sale. Normally £7.50 but as they are discontinuing them, they were reduced to 50p! 3 pairs left and I bought them all, as I only have one pair that fits and isn't bobbly. Hurrah. Absolute bargainy goodness. 
    RAC cover - you only have one vehicle now so no need for Mr Fox to be covered as an individual, give Mr Fox the task of finding cheaper cover; a Quick Look on Autonational Rescue and its £40 for the year; that’s a massive saving 
    You said Mr Fox said about living more frugally so he should be up for the challenge of finding things cheaper? Take some of the home admin tasks off you x 
    Personally I don’t think Prime is worth the money; to me it always makes people spend more and I’ve still bought from there and not paid carriage 
    well done on the bargain tights find 
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    18/01/25: Mortgage: £68,500.14
    27/12/24: Mortgage: £69,278.38 

    27/12/24: Debt: £0 🥳😁
    27/12/24: Savings: £12,000

    07/03/25: Savings: £16,500

  • warby68
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    Kim_13 said:
    warby68 said:
    Popping in to nag a bit but make sure the Boots spends, even though small, get knocked off the budget allocations. Not sure what the appropriate categories are on your budget but guessing groceries might cover the chemist item and clothes for the tights. Great bargain there btw. A good budget makes sure you have enough money for the month so you can pick things like this up.
    Health pot would be the usual one, but can see how there wouldn’t be a health pot as prescriptions are free in Wales.

    £40 for clothes doesn’t seem unreasonable as Mini Fox also needs things at the minute. 

    Premium Bonds keep the money more out of the way than a standard savings account - no notice required as such, but it does take a day or so to get the money. 
    Not sure if I wrote this badly, but I wasn't criticizing the pots just reminding Fox to account for even the small spends so the pots don't look fuller than they should. 

    Personally, I don't think the Premium Bonds timescale is enough to be a strong deterrent but I agree its pretty good.
  • Kim_13
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    warby68 said:
    Kim_13 said:
    warby68 said:
    Popping in to nag a bit but make sure the Boots spends, even though small, get knocked off the budget allocations. Not sure what the appropriate categories are on your budget but guessing groceries might cover the chemist item and clothes for the tights. Great bargain there btw. A good budget makes sure you have enough money for the month so you can pick things like this up.
    Health pot would be the usual one, but can see how there wouldn’t be a health pot as prescriptions are free in Wales.

    £40 for clothes doesn’t seem unreasonable as Mini Fox also needs things at the minute. 

    Premium Bonds keep the money more out of the way than a standard savings account - no notice required as such, but it does take a day or so to get the money. 
    Not sure if I wrote this badly, but I wasn't criticizing the pots just reminding Fox to account for even the small spends so the pots don't look fuller than they should. 

    Personally, I don't think the Premium Bonds timescale is enough to be a strong deterrent but I agree its pretty good.

    Sorry, the later two were me commenting on a post several below yours - I’ve never worked out how to multiquote.
  • warby68
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    I won't try again, but looks like  I failed on the multi quote too !
  • MFWannabe
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    Morning @foxandflowers
    Ive just popped on to say please reconsider selling your house. I think you need to give yourself a few months at least of living within budget. 
    Also there’s a lot to be said for living in a detached property; no potential noisy neighbours next door 🙄
    Also summer is coming and it lifts the mood and you’re not far from the beach where you are I believe? 
    MFW 2025 #50: £711.20/£6000

    07/03/25: Mortgage: £67,000.00
    18/01/25: Mortgage: £68,500.14
    27/12/24: Mortgage: £69,278.38 

    27/12/24: Debt: £0 🥳😁
    27/12/24: Savings: £12,000

    07/03/25: Savings: £16,500

  • foxandflowers
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    edited 21 March 2024 at 12:07PM
    Spoke to Prowaste and I don't owe them anything! It's all paid off apparently, which I find highly suspect as it definitely hasn't come out of my bank account. Unless I paid it off on a credit card that I no longer have? But I don't think I would have. Either way - it doesn't matter. Another £150 knocked off 🎉🎉🎉

    The question is do I take that £150 and use it to knock off a couple of the smaller debts with Stepchange, or leave it aside for savings? 

    Total debt is now £40,828.08. 
    £10,234.06 paid off, which tips me into 13.51% overall cleared off. 

    Now my pots have had an injection to start them off, I am really excited for payday.
    My 'safetynet' pot is a month's worth of bills, and my Emergency Fund is split between next day access and 3 day access with Premium Bonds & a next day ISA that my roundups are also going into. My next savings goal is going to be catching up on PB's for Mini Fox for her 18th birthday. I'd like to have £50 for each birthday and Christmas in there, so when she turns 18 it will be £1,800 (plus any wins, if any). 

    Vehicle pot has £800, presents pot has £500, and my bills pot has a £200 buffer in. It feels such a relief to have some money in the bank. 

     I will still be continuing with clearing stuff, and listing on FB Marketplace and Vinted, which I have fallen off with in recent weeks. I am tired. Going to bed tired, waking up tired. No amount of caffeine is helping. I am going to give myself a lie in on Sunday. I desperately need to do a food shop, as I still haven't had the energy. I just want to get into clean bedding and sleep for the next ten years. 
    ❀ total debt at LBM 01/2023: £47,178.76  ❀ debt at highest point: £51,062.14  
    ❁ currently - £24,950 ❁ emergency fund - £2,500 ❁ 
     ⚜  decluttering medals: ⭐️ || running total physical items in: 74 out: 160
    £1600+ made on vinted since 2023 ⚜
    we could get better, because we're not dead yet - frank turner.  ❧ 
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  • warby68
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    I wouldn't pay off any Stepchange debts as they are the least troublesome debt, requir only £100 a month for the whole lot. I know you want rid but if you reframe this bulk of debt as like a small mortgage (due to its projected term) but with no interest charged and no legal charge on your property then its a very good deal.

    I'd concentrate on the debts outside Stepchange especially your friends as they require proportionately higher commitments from your limited income.
  • warby68
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    Oh and @warby68 I have been diligently putting things into my spending tracker so it shows me what is left available in each pot. From next month, ideally I will be paying for groceries/fuel from the relevant virtual cards, so I don't have to touch my bank balance at all once the salary is sorted into the right places. :) 
    Brilliant :)
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