Neighbour wants access for repairs after harassment

Bendy_House

It wasn't an accurate description of that roofer, given what we were told by the OP?

Is this not same roofer who is seemingly ok with standing near the OP's boundary, and talking in 'stage whispers' about how 'difficult' the neighbour is?

billy2shots

Bendy_House said:

billy2shots said:

Bendy_House said:

I can see you are heavily invested in this thread but it's ok to take a step back when new information comes to light. 

You can cut the patronising out if you like - it reflects more on you.

But, fair do's for the rest of it - I very likely got the sequence out of kilter.

Now't wrong with 'talking', tho'.

I'm sorry if you felt patronised. Certainly not my intention. 

I was reflecting on my experience on this site as much as anything. 

99.9% of the time we only have one side of the story. The more posts an OP makes the more drip feeding of information finds its way to us. 
Along the way (I find) initial perceptions of the situation can change an we (I) should reflect on the situation again given new information. 

Bendy_House

billy2shots said:

Bendy_House said:

billy2shots said:

Bendy_House said:

I can see you are heavily invested in this thread but it's ok to take a step back when new information comes to light. 

You can cut the patronising out if you like - it reflects more on you.

But, fair do's for the rest of it - I very likely got the sequence out of kilter.

Now't wrong with 'talking', tho'.

I'm sorry if you felt patronised. Certainly not my intention. 

I was reflecting on my experience on this site as much as anything. 

99.9% of the time we only have one side of the story. The more posts an OP makes the more drip feeding of information finds its way to us. 
Along the way (I find) initial perceptions of the situation can change an we (I) should reflect on the situation again given new information. 

I wasn't. But that doesn't dismiss what appeared to be an attempt.

Anyhoo, yes, of course we only have one side of this - and every - story on here. And I have made it clear on more than one occasion that answers are based solely on the info provided.

Sometimes it becomes clear that an OP is not being fully forthcoming/is overly sensitive/has downright unreasonable expectations or whatevs, and folk on here usually respond with tempered advice.

I don't see anything like that in this thread, so all my advice was given on the assumption that what Insom has told us is an accurate account, and that they have been given a tough time by this unpleasant neighbour for quite a while.