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Buying ex's share of the house
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The thing is you ARE in a chain if you want to buy ex's share..
- ex is using the money from the sale of (part of) this property to fund his onward purchase --> so sale must be completed on or before the onward purchase completion
- ex is using (part of) this property which they still own to live in until the move date --> so sale must be completed on or after the onward purchase completion
Sounds like them buying elsewhere is part of the plan / deal, so naturally that is a chain of transactions. Aside from the stress you cite, whats the problem?0 -
saajan_12 said:The thing is you ARE in a chain if you want to buy ex's share..
- ex is using the money from the sale of (part of) this property to fund his onward purchase --> so sale must be completed on or before the onward purchase completion
- ex is using (part of) this property which they still own to live in until the move date --> so sale must be completed on or after the onward purchase completion
Sounds like them buying elsewhere is part of the plan / deal, so naturally that is a chain of transactions. Aside from the stress you cite, whats the problem?Debt was £15,903 😬 Now £2718.14 £0 😲🥳0 -
GreenCat80 said:saajan_12 said:The thing is you ARE in a chain if you want to buy ex's share..
- ex is using the money from the sale of (part of) this property to fund his onward purchase --> so sale must be completed on or before the onward purchase completion
- ex is using (part of) this property which they still own to live in until the move date --> so sale must be completed on or after the onward purchase completion
Sounds like them buying elsewhere is part of the plan / deal, so naturally that is a chain of transactions. Aside from the stress you cite, whats the problem?0 -
Hi,GreenCat80 said:saajan_12 said:The thing is you ARE in a chain if you want to buy ex's share..
- ex is using the money from the sale of (part of) this property to fund his onward purchase --> so sale must be completed on or before the onward purchase completion
- ex is using (part of) this property which they still own to live in until the move date --> so sale must be completed on or after the onward purchase completion
Sounds like them buying elsewhere is part of the plan / deal, so naturally that is a chain of transactions. Aside from the stress you cite, whats the problem?
Whether the document you are being asked to sign is appropriate is something that you need to discuss with your solicitor - it may be that changes would need to be negotiated with your ex's solicitors, but it would certainly be reasonable for you to commit to the purchase of the house on a fixed day.
It would also be reasonable for you to require that your ex is fully moved out of what will be your house on the same day (indeed, this will probably be a condition of your mortgage) so you both have things you want to happen at specific times.
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Note is that you may need to have the funds to pay him at exchange. If he's using his existing savings to cover the deposit, then it may be OK otherwise but your solicitor needs to agree the rules with his solicitor early on.
If you've not bought a house recently with a mortgage, then do get the mortgage broker to run through the dos and don'ts that cover your financial responsibilities between offer and completion.
Don't take out any other credit, make a note of all answers you give all questions on the application form and don't put any other answer on any other application even if it's for insurance as they may be compared and shared between financial institutions. The computer likes to say no.
Have you got a documented access agreement yet?
I wish you well; you've taken on an unenviable task (grew up in a similar household). You'll not have much of that 8K left after paying fees, but do get a will sorted out now if you've not already done one.
If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
GreenCat80 said:saajan_12 said:The thing is you ARE in a chain if you want to buy ex's share..
- ex is using the money from the sale of (part of) this property to fund his onward purchase --> so sale must be completed on or before the onward purchase completion
- ex is using (part of) this property which they still own to live in until the move date --> so sale must be completed on or after the onward purchase completion
Sounds like them buying elsewhere is part of the plan / deal, so naturally that is a chain of transactions. Aside from the stress you cite, whats the problem?
* You should have your mortgage offer in place, expiring beyond the completion date before you sign. Then yes, if something still goes wrong and you don't pay as promised, then you'd be liable - same as if you bought from a 3rd party.
* Partner should also move out and the solicitors should transfer the deeds to your sole name on that day too - if they fail to do that then they'd be liable to you for any resulting costs.
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Don't sign anything that his solicitor sends you. The fact he has jumped ahead is his problem. He needs to wait until you have the finances in place to buy him out.0
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