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  • badmemory
    badmemory Posts: 9,705 Forumite
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    themadvix said:
     And the children.... it wasn't what I expected tbh, but I guess local (Surrey) people, aka yummy mummies, must consider it a nice place for some outdoors time. Unfortunately a lot of them weren't well behaved and the parents didn't seem to care. That wasn't the case for all of course, but you know how it is - the misbehaving ones are the ones that draw your attention. (One lad kept pulling down on the branch of a tree, almost back on itself, so close to it tearing and Dad just looked on, not seeing what was wrong with this - it was dangerous to him, never mind the tree!).


    Reading these things always reminds me of taking my family & DS to celebrate young DSs birthday.  They wouldn't let us sit in the restaurant because of DSs age, so led us out onto the veranda.  My DS is not a prig, but he said I don't want to eat in there with that going on.  It was bedlam, they were running up and down & screaming, so the adults heaved a sigh of relief & said we will find somewhere else.  That was over 30 yrs ago.  I'm sure they don't realise that it is their children that don't get invited back.  I know he had one classmate that didn't get to visit again.  It is so unfair on them not to teach them how to behave.  It isn't like I would expect them to be seen & not heard just not wreck the joint.

  • themadvix
    themadvix Posts: 8,786 Forumite
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    badmemory said:
    It is so unfair on them not to teach them how to behave.  It isn't like I would expect them to be seen & not heard just not wreck the joint.

    This is exactly the point! We waited very happily for a lovely family to take photos of their children posing with the plants and enjoyed watching a girl cartwheeling across the lawn (her hair was so long it must have been tricky to not catch it under her hands). Just the senseless, noisy screaming and bad behaviour that we could have done without. Of course, while I don't have children (and am therefore not qualified to comment in so many parents' eyes), I was a Brownie leader for 20 years and never let my Brownies behave in a way that would be unacceptable/unpleasant to others around!
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  • themadvix
    themadvix Posts: 8,786 Forumite
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    Thanks BB. I wish the to-do list would get shorter, but I think it's just the time of year. I'm sure there'll come a point where I'm not needed at the allotment/in the kitchen/at my computer constantly.

    About to jump on a work call (where I'm doing training 😂) and then will be off to post something we sold yesterday (advantage here is I'm decluttering our packing materials and converting RM survey-earned stamps into cold hard cash) and then to collect cat key, drop book at library and hopefully pop to Sains too, although that's in another direction (sort of en route) and requires big backpack (loo roll purchase!). Evening class this eve, but I've done my h/w so feeling virtuous! 😇
    Mortgage free 16/06/2023! £132,500 cleared in 11 years, 3 months and 7 days

    'Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is.' Ernest Hemingway


  • themadvix
    themadvix Posts: 8,786 Forumite
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    Well that's been a fairly full-on afternoon - meeting with Cambridge boss/friend for a good couple of hours, but was productive and then back to stuff for main client. Have also put some bread on. About to abandon computer (and work) and get the bathroom ceiling clean as we've still not sorted it out since Mr MV finally fitted the extractor fan the other week. It works beautifully, so hopefully this isn't a job that will need repeating. Will add tea tree oil to water to up the anti-fungal a bit. 

    Change of plan for dinner as Mr MV's stomach is not up for curry - we'll have salmon, veg and open the sauerkraut!
    Mortgage free 16/06/2023! £132,500 cleared in 11 years, 3 months and 7 days

    'Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is.' Ernest Hemingway


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