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Friends requests Facebook

Every time I log in to Facebook
I have to remove up to 100 "friends requests" from people that I don't know (Greek, Russians  etc) 
How do I stop them in the first place? 

If I was half as smart as I think I am - I'd be twice as smart as I REALLY am.
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  • marcia_
    marcia_ Posts: 3,951 Forumite
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    edited 6 March 2022 at 3:27PM
     Settings - privacy- profile information on my phone and i see this and you can see my settings. You can change the 'who can send you friends requests' to friends of friends etc 


  • MouldyOldDough
    MouldyOldDough Posts: 3,026 Forumite
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    edited 6 March 2022 at 4:01PM
    My only options are Everybody or Friend of Friends
    Everything else is set to. "only me"

    If I was half as smart as I think I am - I'd be twice as smart as I REALLY am.
  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 37,183 Forumite
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    Friends of friends stops the randoms from making contact. Change it to that if you haven’t already. 
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • MouldyOldDough
    MouldyOldDough Posts: 3,026 Forumite
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    It was already set to f of f
    But still.got heaps of requests

    If I was half as smart as I think I am - I'd be twice as smart as I REALLY am.
  • marcia_
    marcia_ Posts: 3,951 Forumite
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    It was already set to f of f
    But still.got heaps of requests
     So these requests have to have mutual friends with you. Maybe your friends just accept anyone as friends 
  • MouldyOldDough
    MouldyOldDough Posts: 3,026 Forumite
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    marcia_ said:
    It was already set to f of f
    But still.got heaps of requests
     So these requests have to have mutual friends with you. Maybe your friends just accept anyone as friends 
    I don't have any Facebook friends 

    If I was half as smart as I think I am - I'd be twice as smart as I REALLY am.
  • Browntoa
    Browntoa Posts: 49,620 Forumite
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    edited 7 March 2022 at 8:40AM
    You cannot stop them , there is no option .

    Only options are what you see above , there is no turn off all

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  • cx6
    cx6 Posts: 1,176 Forumite
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    Maybe it's just one particular friend that has all these friends.
  • marcia_
    marcia_ Posts: 3,951 Forumite
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    cx6 said:
    Maybe it's just one particular friend that has all these friends.
    Why would anyone want to "share friends" anyway?
    This is what I hate about social media!! 
     Then why bother being on Facebook? Its purpose is to stay connected to friends! 
  • TELLIT01
    TELLIT01 Posts: 18,498 Forumite
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    marcia_ said:
    cx6 said:
    Maybe it's just one particular friend that has all these friends.
    Why would anyone want to "share friends" anyway?
    This is what I hate about social media!! 
     Then why bother being on Facebook? Its purpose is to stay connected to friends! 

    There are other functions of Facebook than to connect with friends.  I use FB almost exclusively for information about places I want to visit.  There are often Groups specific to a location.  I join when I need them and then leave the group when it's no longer relevant.  I was once accused of being a troll because I only have about a dozen 'friends' on FB.
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