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Unmarried Uncle, no children who inherits if he doesn't make a will?
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If no will is made I would get your DH to make sure Uncle understands he will not be dealing with the Estate. It would be a nightmare.Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....4
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Savvy_Sue said:That is not an amount over which I'd want to lose sleep. As I said, there are legitimate things it can be spent on, and while I'd expect it to help, it's not going to prevent them claiming benefits long term - and if it WAS, then they'd have a really decent amount of money to set them up!0
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74jax said:If no will is made I would get your DH to make sure Uncle understands he will not be dealing with the Estate. It would be a nightmare.0
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Maybe suggest to uncle that your husband makes an appointment and goes with him to make a will. That may encourage him.0
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If there is trust and not going to hit any IHT issues often the easy way round any benefits is to have someone else get the money and gift as needed to the intended recipients.
there is also the option although not tidy to admin and deal with the known branches holding back the share for the unkown branch.
Much of which could end up getting eaten up by fees tracing the tree.
Will is the sensible option.0 -
getmore4less said:If there is trust and not going to hit any IHT issues often the easy way round any benefits is to have someone else get the money and gift as needed to the intended recipients.
there is also the option although not tidy to admin and deal with the known branches holding back the share for the unkown branch.
Much of which could end up getting eaten up by fees tracing the tree.
Will is the sensible option.
A potential possibility though a will would make things a lot easier. What happens in that case. Do the other siblings and my MIL's share all get distributed out as we know who is the heirs with those branches, but Uncle J's branch doesn't until all children are found - how long is allowed for tracing them? Or would all money get held up until Uncle J's children are all found?0 -
Spendless said:getmore4less said:If there is trust and not going to hit any IHT issues often the easy way round any benefits is to have someone else get the money and gift as needed to the intended recipients.
there is also the option although not tidy to admin and deal with the known branches holding back the share for the unkown branch.
Much of which could end up getting eaten up by fees tracing the tree.
Will is the sensible option.
if that's in the will its fine(can't do it intestate)
Can also be done through a trust but that has to be done carefully
A potential possibility though a will would make things a lot easier. What happens in that case. Do the other siblings and my MIL's share all get distributed out as we know who is the heirs with those branches, but Uncle J's branch doesn't until all children are found - how long is allowed for tracing them? Or would all money get held up until Uncle J's children are all found?
H.Hunters may be interested in tracing that line but probably not for a cut from ~£20k probably less as you have some of the tree anyway so less than £10k
Best if UJ just makes a simple will.1 -
getmore4less said:Spendless said:getmore4less said:If there is trust and not going to hit any IHT issues often the easy way round any benefits is to have someone else get the money and gift as needed to the intended recipients.
there is also the option although not tidy to admin and deal with the known branches holding back the share for the unkown branch.
Much of which could end up getting eaten up by fees tracing the tree.
Will is the sensible option.
if that's in the will its fine(can't do it intestate)
Can also be done through a trust but that has to be done carefully
A potential possibility though a will would make things a lot easier. What happens in that case. Do the other siblings and my MIL's share all get distributed out as we know who is the heirs with those branches, but Uncle J's branch doesn't until all children are found - how long is allowed for tracing them? Or would all money get held up until Uncle J's children are all found?
H.Hunters may be interested in tracing that line but probably not for a cut from ~£20k probably less as you have some of the tree anyway so less than £10k
Best if UJ just makes a simple will.
The remaining £20K that would have gone to Uncle J, will be split between his heirs. We definitely know of 4 of them, we think it's likely there's another 1 and the possibility of 1 more. 1 of the known 4 is hubby's cousin P who has already died and had 2 children himself. Do the children of cousin P inherit his share or is it just divided between the other children of Uncle J?0 -
To update this, Uncle has now said he's made a will. DH was on the brink of fetching it up with him again due to reading online news about a relative who would inherit due to intestacy frequently being in and and out of prison. Uncle then said he'd made one, which is fab, but if he doesn't tell anyone which solicitor he's used to make it, how would any of us know when the time comes where to search for it? In these circs how do you know someone has made a will rather than died without one?
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Spendless said:To update this, Uncle has now said he's made a will. DH was on the brink of fetching it up with him again due to reading online news about a relative who would inherit due to intestacy frequently being in and and out of prison. Uncle then said he'd made one, which is fab, but if he doesn't tell anyone which solicitor he's used to make it, how would any of us know when the time comes where to search for it? In these circs how do you know someone has made a will rather than died without one?1
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