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Balance in the force

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  • Congratulations, and I hope work has been kind to you, especially if you're ill. Rest up over the weekend.
    Start mortgage date: August 2022; Start mortgage amount: £240,999; Original mortgage free date: August 2056
    Current mortgage amount: £226,957.97
    Start student loan 2012: £29,750; current student loan: CLEARED July 2025
  • Work was suspiciously quiet this week. I can say that now as I'm off til the 3rd :wink: 
    Its going to be a quiet few days for us. I usually love New Year but not really feeling like celebrating this year.
    MFW 2024 £27500/7500 Mortgage £129,500 Jan 22 Final payment June 38 Now £68489.08 FP May 36 Emergency Fund £20,000 100% Added to ISA 24 £8,060 Save 12k in 24 #31 £20,034.76/20,000 Debt Free 31.07.14
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,017 Forumite
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    Hugs. It is a difficult time of year for many - and if you are also feeling ill and spiking fevers that won't help. Hope you get some decent rest.

    Wishing you happiness and prosperity in the new year.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • FlacosFloozie
    FlacosFloozie Posts: 830 Forumite
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    edited 31 December 2023 at 5:47PM
    The meter readings are submitted and energy bills paid so YNAB is up to date and reconciled ready for next year.Aside from thet it was a no spend day.
    I'm batch cooking stew in the slow cooker- using up the leftover Christmas veggies.
    I did buy a new work handbag in the sales which arrived yesterday. I'm pleased with it at the price I bought it for but not sure I would have paid full price for it. Hopefully, it will last a good few years.
    MFW 2024 £27500/7500 Mortgage £129,500 Jan 22 Final payment June 38 Now £68489.08 FP May 36 Emergency Fund £20,000 100% Added to ISA 24 £8,060 Save 12k in 24 #31 £20,034.76/20,000 Debt Free 31.07.14
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,017 Forumite
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    Woohoo - all sounding very mse. Enjoy your new handbag.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • Happy New Year everyone! I have to confess I got to about 11.45 last night and just started to cry. Mum loved New Year- there were always parties at neighbours and everyone visiting. I have lots of happy memories with her and it hurts that there won't be any more. I don't think it helped that Dad is fighting off a cold so declined coming for lunch today. To be honest, I suspect he's feeling sad and wanting some alone time. I need to repect that but I'll call him later and maybe pop round tomorrow.
    I got up and went to parkrun this morning. The last time I went I got the call to say mum was dying. I haven't run since but I know it's good for me in the long run. Turns out, only keen people go on NYD. Between aching knees, post covid lungs and crying on and off I was a couple of minutes slower than usual but ended up second last. I'll take it as my only goal was to make it round and I did. The next time will be easier. There were also many people taking photos so I suspect there will be some truly unflattering ones of me later :smiley:
    MFW 2024 £27500/7500 Mortgage £129,500 Jan 22 Final payment June 38 Now £68489.08 FP May 36 Emergency Fund £20,000 100% Added to ISA 24 £8,060 Save 12k in 24 #31 £20,034.76/20,000 Debt Free 31.07.14
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,017 Forumite
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    I hope the crying was cathartic. Well done for going to the park run - when you are grieving there are so many firsts....
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • Slow and steady is probably better for your post covid recovery even without everything else going on. The cry was probably more helpful than not.
    Start mortgage date: August 2022; Start mortgage amount: £240,999; Original mortgage free date: August 2056
    Current mortgage amount: £226,957.97
    Start student loan 2012: £29,750; current student loan: CLEARED July 2025
  • Thank you both. Crying is definitely cathartic for me but I do worry about panicking other people when its in public.
    MFW 2024 £27500/7500 Mortgage £129,500 Jan 22 Final payment June 38 Now £68489.08 FP May 36 Emergency Fund £20,000 100% Added to ISA 24 £8,060 Save 12k in 24 #31 £20,034.76/20,000 Debt Free 31.07.14
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