Alchemausterity II

Alchemilla

Watty1 said:

you were not married so it should not do so but i get the deceit part.  I presume at some point your attitude to money (being on an MSE board means you are probably watchful) must have been discussed so to propose and think marriage on the cards without sharing a fundamental like that is, well, surprising to say the least.

Because (in part) of MSE, I started noticing a mystery money hole and asked the direct question about debt a while ago. The answer was not truthful 😐

Alchemilla

earthgirl2 said:

Great that you got the all clear, sorry to hear about the lies. Pleased your trusted your instincts- on a forum we only see a teeny tiny part of life, it's what you see and feel that matters. Hope you are ok x

Thanks Earthie. Apart from wondering what on earth I was thinking!

Alchemilla

I'm not doing well at updating or reading diaries.

While I've been away ex DF has been messaging me telling me he'll do anything, he loves me and wants us back together. Unfortunately at the same time as advertising himself on tinder with a pic I took in my dining room with his daughter who I was hosting.

Apparently he didn't know which site he was on/was trying to make me jealous/thought someone might want him/his head was messed up/the account wasn't active...

edinburgher

Blech 🤢 How disrespectful.

Sorry Al, think you made the right choice there, although I'm sure it hurt. 

Watty1

Oh lord what a mess.  Hope you are ok in spite of this 

greent

Second Ed's comment about sounding like the right choice.

So sorry you have to deal with such an idiot x

CCW007

Oh that sounds like a whole lot of gaslighting 

Alchemilla

edinburgher said:

Blech 🤢 How disrespectful.

Sorry Al, think you made the right choice there, although I'm sure it hurt. 

@edinburgher thanks it made me wonder if I knew him at all, and I guess not.

Alchemilla

Watty1 said:

Oh lord what a mess.  Hope you are ok in spite of this 

@Watty1 thanks, I am really. Who puts their CHILD on OLD!

Alchemilla

greent said:

Second Ed's comment about sounding like the right choice.

So sorry you have to deal with such an idiot x

Thanks @greent. After this week when he is supposed to be collecting his stuff, I will be properly free 🙂