Benefits and dementia

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unfortunately my DH 49 is about to get a dementia diagnosis, just working out which type, likely FTD. He has always worked and up until summer was managing but this is no longer possible. Job centre advised applying for esa which we did on July 16 and been sending in fit notes. Now we’re are further down the line with understanding cause and getting diagnosis at end of this month. I am concerned as we’ve received no assessment date and we now understand more and that he will continue to deteriorate. He already has since July. The consultant has advised applying for pip too and has already signed form for reduced council tax. I’m also in midst of getting POA.
my questions are,
have i I missed anything?
is it normal in these times to hear nothing about esa for 17 weeks?
should i have waited for diagnosis although obviously difficulties have been present for a while?
does a dementia diagnosis mean support group for esa?
sorry if these are very naive questions I’ve never applied for benefits and at 40 didn’t expect having to get POA for DH.
any help/support/advise welcome. Thanks
my questions are,
have i I missed anything?
is it normal in these times to hear nothing about esa for 17 weeks?
should i have waited for diagnosis although obviously difficulties have been present for a while?
does a dementia diagnosis mean support group for esa?
sorry if these are very naive questions I’ve never applied for benefits and at 40 didn’t expect having to get POA for DH.
any help/support/advise welcome. Thanks
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Your hubby may be entitled to a blue badge and she will possibly apply on your behalf.good luck
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We we are not eligible for UC as I have increased my hours to full time as I can for now. The calculators I’ve used point to pip and esa.
I didnt know about a benefits assessor. That sounds like a good option. I also didn’t know about becoming an appointee. Tbh most people on phone have quickly agreed to speak with me but it may be less stressful if confirming with DH wasn’t required first.
the consultant has signed the council tax exemption form but I’m not sure if we can apply while just on the assessment for esa? I suppose every council is different.
thanks again
Also is there a support group for this condition?
Im getting counselling and meeting a dementia advisor this week. She may support with benefit advice. I’ve had some conflicting advice about waiting for diagnosis but in reality it won’t change the difficulties we’ve been having for a while and only now coming to terms with. Also had some unhelpful aw no sorry thats for people over 65 comments. Particularly difficult to hear.
consultant, go and community nurse have been great support and children are getting young carer support in school.
Thank you.
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OP, I haven't seen your first question about ESA directly answered so no it's not unusual to have had no assessment date from ESA at this point. Have you had the form to fill in? If things have got worse between filling in the form and whenever he is eventually assessed, make sure to explicitly tell them that (even in writing) so that they have all the information to make the right decision at the time of assessment. It will also be easier to have everything in writing if you then have to fight for the correct decision (hopefully you won't have to, but it's good to be prepared).
i thought about doing POA myself but have so much going on took money from savings to pay solicitor to do it. Almost done.house has always been in my name only anyway and financial affairs are simple for DH.
thankyou for all suggestions and advice. It’s been such a shock and so much to deal with. Hopefully when some of these things are in place we can get on with making the best of our time.
thanks