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My ex partner is refusing to leave my house i solely own
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for those advising selling the house. the OP will need to evict his ex-partner and his son from the property first before he can sell the house as it needs to be sold with empty possession.
to evict them will not be an easy matter as they will have the right to live there under law because of the relationship and the fact that they have been living there for so long. the court will have to be satisfied that the child will have adequate housing before they will agree to an eviction order.
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AskAsk said:for those advising selling the house. the OP will need to evict his ex-partner and his son from the property first before he can sell the house as it needs to be sold with empty possession.
to evict them will not be an easy matter as they will have the right to live there under law because of the relationship and the fact that they have been living there for so long. the court will have to be satisfied that the child will have adequate housing before they will agree to an eviction order.
That would be true if they were married, for as long as they were married, but it is not true of an unmarried cohabitant.
Equally, there is no rule against evicting someone with a child, although the mother might be able to make applications where the child would be relevant.
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AskAsk said:for those advising selling the house. the OP will need to evict his ex-partner and his son from the property first before he can sell the house as it needs to be sold with empty possession.
to evict them will not be an easy matter as they will have the right to live there under law because of the relationship and the fact that they have been living there for so long. the court will have to be satisfied that the child will have adequate housing before they will agree to an eviction order.2 -
Pixie5740 said:AskAsk said:for those advising selling the house. the OP will need to evict his ex-partner and his son from the property first before he can sell the house as it needs to be sold with empty possession.
to evict them will not be an easy matter as they will have the right to live there under law because of the relationship and the fact that they have been living there for so long. the court will have to be satisfied that the child will have adequate housing before they will agree to an eviction order.
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/if-you-were-living-together/your-ex-partner-is-trying-to-make-you-leave
https://england.shelter.org.uk/professional_resources/legal/relationship_breakdown/housing_rights_of_cohabiting_sole_homeowners/occupation_rights_if_one_partner_is_the_sole_owner
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Pixie5740 said:AskAsk said:for those advising selling the house. the OP will need to evict his ex-partner and his son from the property first before he can sell the house as it needs to be sold with empty possession.
to evict them will not be an easy matter as they will have the right to live there under law because of the relationship and the fact that they have been living there for so long. the court will have to be satisfied that the child will have adequate housing before they will agree to an eviction order.
He has Mount Everest to climb Pursuing this rout.
Trespass would consist of any unjustifiable intrusion by a person upon the land in possession of another
unjustifiable being the operative word, she would not be a simple squatter, a simple squatter has no justification for occupying a property of another…bare this in mind.
When a trespass is alleged in court the trespasser has to justify to the court why they are occupying the property or land, the district Judge decides if she is justified to then remain or not.
What do think the justification is going to be?
Yes that’s right, her justification argument would be that she is the ex partner of the applicant, the applicant and her has a child of young age, she will argue 50/50 contribution to the household such as upgrades modifications and or council tax contributions, food electric gas for the last 5 years, that she must be afforded time to get on the housing register and the council and housing priority lists.
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AskAsk said:Pixie5740 said:AskAsk said:for those advising selling the house. the OP will need to evict his ex-partner and his son from the property first before he can sell the house as it needs to be sold with empty possession.
to evict them will not be an easy matter as they will have the right to live there under law because of the relationship and the fact that they have been living there for so long. the court will have to be satisfied that the child will have adequate housing before they will agree to an eviction order.
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/if-you-were-living-together/your-ex-partner-is-trying-to-make-you-leave
https://england.shelter.org.uk/professional_resources/legal/relationship_breakdown/housing_rights_of_cohabiting_sole_homeowners/occupation_rights_if_one_partner_is_the_sole_ownerWe don’t know what that £20,000 is for which is why I asked on page 1 of this thread. That money might not have had anything to do with capital repayments or capital improvements to the property. That money could have been for utilities, food, nappies, holidays, a complete fantasy in the ex’s head. Even if the ex could establish a beneficial interest in the property that doesn’t give her the right to remain living in the property.If she cannot adequately home herself and the child then she can go and the OP could become the primary care giver.0 -
Pixie5740 said:AskAsk said:Pixie5740 said:AskAsk said:for those advising selling the house. the OP will need to evict his ex-partner and his son from the property first before he can sell the house as it needs to be sold with empty possession.
to evict them will not be an easy matter as they will have the right to live there under law because of the relationship and the fact that they have been living there for so long. the court will have to be satisfied that the child will have adequate housing before they will agree to an eviction order.
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/if-you-were-living-together/your-ex-partner-is-trying-to-make-you-leave
https://england.shelter.org.uk/professional_resources/legal/relationship_breakdown/housing_rights_of_cohabiting_sole_homeowners/occupation_rights_if_one_partner_is_the_sole_ownerWe don’t know what that £20,000 is for which is why I asked on page 1 of this thread. That money might not have had anything to do with capital repayments or capital improvements to the property. That money could have been for utilities, food, nappies, holidays. Even if the ex could establish a beneficial interest in the property that doesn’t automatically give her the right to remain living in the property.If she cannot adequately home herself and the child then she can go and the OP could become the primary care giver.
she may be able to get some claim from the house even if the house is only in his name, from that link.
matters of this sort, where there is a family dispute, and even if they are not married, they will be considered a family, will make it harder to get rid of her as she is not a stranger or a friend sofa surfing.0 -
T.T.D said:Pixie5740 said:AskAsk said:for those advising selling the house. the OP will need to evict his ex-partner and his son from the property first before he can sell the house as it needs to be sold with empty possession.
to evict them will not be an easy matter as they will have the right to live there under law because of the relationship and the fact that they have been living there for so long. the court will have to be satisfied that the child will have adequate housing before they will agree to an eviction order.
He has Mount Everest to climb Pursuing this rout.
Trespass would consist of any unjustifiable intrusion by a person upon the land in possession of another
unjustifiable being the operative word, she would not be a simple squatter, a simple squatter has no justification for occupying a property of another…bare this in mind.
When a trespass is alleged in court the trespasser has to justify to the court why they are occupying the property or land, the district Judge decides if she is justified to then remain or not.
What do think the justification is going to be?
Yes that’s right, her justification argument would be that she is the ex partner of the applicant, the applicant and her has a child of young age, she will argue 50/50 contribution to the household such as upgrades modifications and or council tax contributions, food electric gas for the last 5 years, that she must be afforded time to get on the housing register and the council and housing priority lists.
Establishing a beneficial interest in a property is possible under the Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996 if the ex can establish she has made capital contributions to the property, paying for household bills doesn’t count, and for that she would need to take it to court. The OP could have her out of the property long before that ever happens. Besides a beneficial interest does not give you a right to reside in the property just some of the capital.0 -
AskAsk said:Pixie5740 said:AskAsk said:Pixie5740 said:AskAsk said:for those advising selling the house. the OP will need to evict his ex-partner and his son from the property first before he can sell the house as it needs to be sold with empty possession.
to evict them will not be an easy matter as they will have the right to live there under law because of the relationship and the fact that they have been living there for so long. the court will have to be satisfied that the child will have adequate housing before they will agree to an eviction order.
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/if-you-were-living-together/your-ex-partner-is-trying-to-make-you-leave
https://england.shelter.org.uk/professional_resources/legal/relationship_breakdown/housing_rights_of_cohabiting_sole_homeowners/occupation_rights_if_one_partner_is_the_sole_ownerWe don’t know what that £20,000 is for which is why I asked on page 1 of this thread. That money might not have had anything to do with capital repayments or capital improvements to the property. That money could have been for utilities, food, nappies, holidays. Even if the ex could establish a beneficial interest in the property that doesn’t automatically give her the right to remain living in the property.If she cannot adequately home herself and the child then she can go and the OP could become the primary care giver.
she may be able to get some claim from the house even if the house is only in his name, from that link.
matters of this sort, where there is a family dispute, and even if they are not married, they will be considered a family, will make it harder to get rid of her as she is not a stranger or a friend sofa surfing.0
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