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Learning to walk before I run
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I think sometimes it's also a psychological thing though. I remember thinking my bathroom was bigger despite the fact I had seen it twice in person, no extension before the sale actually went through.6
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Urgh, hang in there with the building work. When we had our bedroom done, Mr Cheery was horrified to find them building a stud wall along one side, and planning to do it round the other sides too. The wall was quite wonky, so it took a good few inches off! He quickly stopped them doing it to the other walls, which we just had plastered instead - which cost far more as they had to take all the old render off 🙄 Still, we retained a good six inches there which I'm sure we'll put to good use 🙄 At least we have an insulated wall on the cold side of the house!
It will all be worth it in the end, but I do very much sympathise!6 -
With regard to the height, it is a bedroom, and it sounds trite but so much of your time will be spent in bed, so the ceiling height is less of an issue. My two "boys" (DH, 6'3" and DS 6'4") can stand up in all the rooms here, just not in all of the places in all of the rooms. Our 17thC cottage has low beams downstairs and sloping roofs upstairs. I am told (by DH) that the trick is to orientate your furniture so that when you get up (from bed or seat) your path to the door is relatively hazard-free. You will quickly learn where you must be cautious and only have a problem when someone moves the furniture. I hope it works for youSave £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £4863.32 out of £6000 after May (81.05%)
OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £1286.68/£3000 or 42.89% of my annual spend so far
I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
My new diary is here7 -
Sympathies on living with the in laws. Not for too much longer and it should be worth it. Something to cling onto.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £175.8K Equity 32.38%
2) £4.3K Net savings after CCs 13/5/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £20.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 26.3/£127.5K target 20.63% updated 16/5
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.4K updated 16/55 -
edinburgher said:@Suffolk_lass - as our annual subscription ran out roughly a fortnight ago it's just a case of taking out a new one - no cleverness required. I'll hold off until the last minute, we can use in-law's if we desperately need anything before we move home and do them a transfer.Mhhh... I have been out to the house today and was struck by how the new attic bedroom isn't quite as big as I'd expected
I'm sure it's largely psychological, but the combination of the stress, worry and financial impact of converting the space had made me picture it as a cavernous space that I'd need to traverse over several days with a team of dogs!
It's still a very decently sized bedroom (you could get a super kingsize bed up there no problems) with a permanent staircase, up to code etc. and there is great storage in the eaves (two cupboards, approximately 6m x 1m each). I don't think I'd allowed for the fact that the eaves slope - ok if you're a child or a teenager - but a little ducking is involved for a grown man as you move away from the middle of the room.The really weird thing? Our next door neighbour's house is the same size as ours (actually, might be about 2' less wide) - they have 2 bedrooms up there and 6'+ sons - they must have really struggled!Took DD1 swimming today, very much looking forward to the temperature dropping this weekI have been doing some budget virements today (moving money away from the over budgeted attic budget towards things like our nascent EF).Sadly pets were banned so no Tomb Raider sledges
Hopefully you will be back home soon. Hopefully taking the in- laws out for a fabulous dinner once you all moved will restore proper relations.. plus distance. I love my family but it can be hard to live with some of them!DON'T BUY STUFF (from Frugalwoods)
No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff. Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6289577/future-proofing-my-life-deposit-saving-then-mfw-journey-in-under-13-years#latest6 -
Our bedroom is in the loft, so we have the sloping ceilinh issue (not a massive issue for me at 5' 2") DH's side of the bed is opposite the door, so he can move in an uninterrupted line out of the room. You also adapt to it very quickly. I'd recommend blackout blinds if you have v3lux windows - they are brilliant (and the blinds are so easy to fit yourself) Plus whilst you spend maybe 1/3rd of your day in a bedroom, you are asleep fro the majority of that time
Our loft conversion has our bedroom, a landing / dressing area (to which the stairs run up to with an L shaped bannister) and a huge bathroom that's possibly the size of our bedroom. If we'd changed it to have a bigger bedroom and smaller bathroom as a 'proper' ensuite (both the bedroom and bathroom have doors from the landing) then we would have had to change the positioning of the stairs - and we wanted our stairs to run around from the main stairs, which are central, not to start at a random point.
I think all loft conversions (and even some extensions) involve compromises - getting the flow right and room sizes and window placements etc. I wouldn't be without ours, though - and love the huge bathroom we have as a resuktnof compromising on bedroom space - it feels very luxuriousI am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soulRepaid mtge early (orig 11/25) 01/09 £124616 01/11 £89873 01/13 £52546 01/15 £12133 07/15 £NILNet sales 2024: £207 -
greent said:Our bedroom is in the loft, so we have the sloping ceilinh issue (not a massive issue for me at 5' 2")2025 decluttering: 2,387🌟🥉🌟💐🏅🏅🌟🥈🏅🌟🏅💐💎🌟🏅
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Mini kitchen challenge 43/50
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@greent - blackout blinds are absolutely on our list of items to buyThe builders remain busy, although we are now now expecting them to finish until the 2nd or 3rd of September
The plasterer starts on Friday and they will be fitting the staircase from next Monday. In-laws haven't complained about our slightly longer stay, so we can't be a total loggerheads...
Not much financial news. I withdrew £13? or so from Prolific, but this has just been used to top up my personal spends account. Work has been absolutely torrid as we are 3 team members down, I worked 8-7 today! I am trying to appear willing as a promoted post may be getting advertised in the near future and I like to think I have at least some chance of getting it.9 -
Urgh to prolonged builders 🙄 Hang in there!! And fingers and toes crossed for promotion (don't work your fingers to the bone for it though, they won't appreciate it!)6
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Hope you get the promotion.
Well done on the survey money.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £175.8K Equity 32.38%
2) £4.3K Net savings after CCs 13/5/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £20.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 26.3/£127.5K target 20.63% updated 16/5
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.4K updated 16/54
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