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Can I live in my uncles house

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My 85 year old uncle is in a care home with dementia, I have lasting power of attorney for both financial and health, and am executor of his will. He has willed his house to me when he passed away. 
My question is can my husband and I live in his house? We have to move out of our rented accommodation, which is a nightmare as I am suffering with depression at the moment. 
Can I use money from my uncles bank account to update his house, as it is in a bad state? 
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  • saajan_12
    saajan_12 Posts: 5,089 Forumite
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    My 85 year old uncle is in a care home with dementia, I have lasting power of attorney for both financial and health, and am executor of his will. He has willed his house to me when he passed away. - irrelevant now, as he's still alive. He may need the value in the house to fund care (or pay back the council if front the money) so there may be nothing to will you. 
    My question is can my husband and I live in his house? We have to move out of our rented accommodation, which is a nightmare as I am suffering with depression at the moment. - would you be paying rent? As POA you have a duty to act in his best interest - so either let the property at a market rent or keep it available for him to use. 
    Can I use money from my uncles bank account to update his house, as it is in a bad state? - No! Again as POA, how is it in his best interest to spend his money on a house he's not using? He could use those funds to live, not improve your inheritance. 
    Quoting early. 
    Comments in bold in line. 
  • babyblade41
    babyblade41 Posts: 3,962 Forumite
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    I do hope this is not a serious post !!, if it is then poor old Uncle 
  • theartfullodger
    theartfullodger Posts: 15,709 Forumite
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    There must be a process for challenging dodgy PoAs...   (Recently had experience of my sister having PoA for our brother, now deceased.  She handled it impeccably)

    And you already think you're inheriting?  Some might wish that gets challenged.

    Best wishes to all.
  • TripleH
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    Whilst the solution the Op is proposing is not deemed the right thing, she has asked before moving in rather than 'I did xyz was I right to do that?'

    Now this next bit may well be bad advice hence why I ask for your opinions , if the Op moved in and paid market rate rent for the property (to a separate account) that could be paid over to cover care costs I assume that is permissable? If some of that rent money was used to repair the house 'would that be permitted'?
    I am giving the Op the benefit of the doubt that she has the right intentions but has cut steps out that someone without the right knowledge could miss.
    May you find your sister soon Helli.
    Sleep well.
  • TripleH
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    Grumpy_chap beat me to it.
    This does make a good short term solution if done officially as it will also give the Op time to sort out the house for sale and for her to find a new home without the worry of a non-paying tenant.
    May you find your sister soon Helli.
    Sleep well.
  • NameUnavailable
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    edited 19 August 2021 at 2:11PM
    If the Uncle is in a care home with dementia then he's not coming back out again.

    Who is currently paying for the care home? Presumably money from his pension/savings?

    When the savings run out the funds will have to come from his other assets i.e. the property, so that will need to be sold or possibly rented out assuming that will bring in enough income.

    What you can't do is 'inherit' the house or any of his other assets/funds before he dies in the hope of him then being able to qualify for benefits.

    Sorry if that sounds insensitive. A friend of mine had to deal with a similar situation recently and the family were struggling to cover the care home fees without having to resorting to selling the house.
  • Thanks for some of your help. I am not trying to rip my uncle off. My husband and myself do not have a lot of money, but would be quite happy to pay rent. If it is in disrepair, then surely it will sell for more money if we make it look a lot better surely. Some of the comments however upset me. 
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