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T-shirt inappropriate for work?

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  • Jillanddy said:
    Ah!  That was the thread that started off with grieving that he wouldn't be able to see his "sexy tutor" again.
  • I'm just amazed that the slogan on the t-shirt is still legible after all these years, being worn pretty much daily and (hopefully) going through the wash several times per week.  :D
  • TELLIT01
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    The OP clearly has a problem with understanding what is appropriate.  Hopefully they didn't tell the tutor they thought they were sexy.  That could certainly be interpreted as harrassment i.e. inappropriate behaviour.
  • Sncjw
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    And you really don't think youstill need to wear appropriate clothing even if your hired by the agency.

    You strike me as someone who is not mature at all. Leave any slogan tshirts for outside of work. Wear plain t shirts.

    Doesn't matter if your gay, straight or bi wearing the attire that is set out by place that required you will allow the agency to stay on good terms with the business but also allows you to stay on good terms with the agency. If you do this regularly and kick up a fuss it could affect who hires the agency but also it could also affect other people who are agency workers as they may not be able to work in that buisness again due to the tarnished view of the agency.

    Just think of the wider affect before you start kicking off and also wear the appropriate clothing. 
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  • Sncjw said:

    ... If you do this regularly and kick up a fuss it could affect who hires the agency but also it could also affect other people who are agency workers as they may not be able to work in that buisness again due to the tarnished view of the agency.

    Just think of the wider affect before you start kicking off and also wear the appropriate clothing. 
    Good points.
  • Update: I wore my gay t-shirt yesterday on my last day as the cleaner who told me to remove it and passed me a plain t-shirt. she wasn't in yesterday, thank god. All other cleaners don't mind my t-shirt, it was just her! 
  • Teapot55
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    @Jack_bauer24 you’re right that some random employee who isn’t your supervisor can’t tell you what to wear or what not wear. The best response is to politely point this out. 

    However, anything that distracts others from getting on with their work won’t be favoured by an employer and the person who interfered probably did so for that reason. Equally frowned on would be a football shirt in the ‘wrong’ town or a see-through or overly-skimpy t-shirt. 

    ‘Business wear’ isn’t appropriate for cleaning (or stripping down engines, or driving an ambulance!) by the way.  

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