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T-shirt inappropriate for work?

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  • Tokmon
    Tokmon Posts: 628 Forumite
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    Jillanddy said:
    I am just annoyed that I can't wear my gay slogan t-shirt

    That sounds very much like the T-shirt was worn to provoke a response. Would you be so annoyed if the company policy was that you cannot wear blue? 

    Regardless of what the job or the "rules" I think it is inappropriate to be parading your personal opinions on a T-shirt at work. Whatever they are. 
    I am not provoking a response, I just want to wear it. I shouldn't get told what I can or can't wear when I am not employed by them, it's that simple.  

    Your representing your employer (The Agency) who they have contracted to provide your services and they are indirectly paying your wages. It's not very professional wearing any kind of T-Shirt with a random slogan or logo on it not matter what it is. The fact that you are not employed by them should make you want to act even more professionally so you are more likely to get work with them again in the future.

    Also using that logic they can't tell you what to wear as they don't employee you then you must have just turned up and started cleaning wherever you feel like in whatever way you wanted too because they couldn't possibly give you any instructions as they aren't your employer...
  • Dakta
    Dakta Posts: 585 Forumite
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    edited 13 August 2021 at 3:41PM
    The moment when 'ah that explains a lot' just doesn't cut it! Creating a thread about making a statement did seem quite statementy in it's own right, and the concepts were so simple it did raise an eyebrow - but benefits of doubt were given.

    Probably one for the 'problems exceed the scope of our capabilities' bin
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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     I wore this gay slogan t-shirt (Nobody Knows I'm Gay) 
    With a history as shown through the threads, the T-shirt not only wasn't suitable for work, it was inaccurate - everyone who knows the OP must know they are gay. 
  • Jillanddy
    Jillanddy Posts: 717 Forumite
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    Mojisola said:
     I wore this gay slogan t-shirt (Nobody Knows I'm Gay) 
    With a history as shown through the threads, the T-shirt not only wasn't suitable for work, it was inaccurate - everyone who knows the OP must know they are gay. 
    You remind me of the story of a friend. I live in a fairly small village - well, outside the village in fact. Him and his dad moved in about seven years ago. About three weeks ago, after knowing them for years, he confided in my that actually his dad was his partner and they'd never told anyone because they know how backward small villages are. I am still trying to figure out how to tell him that it's possible the blind housebound lady at 92 doesn't know they are actually a gay couple....
  • kazwookie
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    I am surprised the agency didn't instruct you when you started for them, a dress code that the company you were off to work for.

    Over time I have worked for various agencies in various roles, and I have always been told something like ' business wear' nothing too bright' 'jeans and plain tee shirt'
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