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Ex neighbour asking for money 'refund'

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  • cymruchris
    cymruchris Posts: 5,562 Forumite
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    Thankyou to everyone who has taken the time to comment, it’s much appreciated. I think we’re going to ignore the letter. Should have explained that we knew that they funded the purchase of their new home by sale of their old one ie next door to us, plus funds from sale of a property she owned on Cyprus, which she told me she bought when they were stationed out there.
    I would agree you're doing the right thing - if the financial situation is that dire - it won't be long before she's forced to take action - and possibly end up downsizing. She's not going to be destitute if you don't pay the £100 she's asking for, if she has all that money tied up in property, but property isn't seen as money in the bank to spend. 


  • Abbafan1972
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    I’m glad you’ve chose to ignore the letter. What a cheek! 
    Striving to clear the mortgage before it finishes in Dec 2028 - amount currently owed - £24,616.09
  • Absolutely the right decision, EotW, and without a trace of guilt.
  • pollypenny
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    Ignore it.  They didn't even pay half to the fence cost. 
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  • ashe
    ashe Posts: 1,574 Forumite
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    Send it back with “recipient no longer at this address” on it

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