Three years to get debt free

Willowtree222

Parkyp said:

Awe just take it easy, your never off work. How’s dd x

She’s ok, doing fine. It’s just me. I’m never off but this time I’m just wanting to sleep and that’s not me either x

Parkyp

That’s good she hasn’t caught it. There seemed to be a lot of viruses going about about the moment. 

Sleep whenever you can you’re body needs it not always possible when you have dd to take care of x

Willowtree222

Parkyp said:

That’s good she hasn’t caught it. There seemed to be a lot of viruses going about about the moment. 

Sleep whenever you can you’re body needs it not always possible when you have dd to take care of x

There’s loads. Her teacher is off poorly too. I just wish I could take more time off x

Buffythedebtslayer

Without your health Willow, you don't have anything. Stay off if you are ill. End of. 

Sending you love XXXX 

and I totally hear you re work! 

Parkyp

Agree with @Buffythedebtslayer stay off, i think your students and colleagues Would appreciate it to, don’t want it spreading around everyone x

Willowtree222

Buffythedebtslayer said:

Without your health Willow, you don't have anything. Stay off if you are ill. End of. 

Sending you love XXXX 

and I totally hear you re work! 

Parkyp said:

Agree with @Buffythedebtslayer stay off, i think your students and colleagues Would appreciate it to, don’t want it spreading around everyone x

Tried to go in, lasted an hour before being exited. X

IzzyBee

Take care of yourself what is it they say you’re health is your wealth big hugs

Willowtree222

IzzyBee said:

Take care of yourself what is it they say you’re health is your wealth big hugs

Thanks Izzy. X

Willowtree222

Heya,

I didn’t manage long in work before the managers sent me home. I’ve looked at my app for sleep and it tells me that I’m getting barely any deep sleep despite my early nights. That will explain why I feel so fun down even though I’m thinking I’m sleeping. 

Equally I’ve been trying to tutor on the nights DD doesn’t have a club so really don’t get any time. DD now has football matches on Saturday and Sunday is catching up on washing ironing etc. I had to cancel tutoring this week as I wasn’t up to it. 

I did mention to my ex how tired I was and why and he volunteered to offer help. He will explain how he makes passive income if I want abs then I can bounce ideas off him. I’m not sure that’s for me considering I’m paying 8k off that he didn’t actually put in extra when you take into consideration what I put in at the beginning (on top of the 32k) he’d already had as well as the £200 monthly he pays when probably that should be double. I’m not asking for more. My conscience with DD is clear. He doesn’t process me paying a loan back will always have an impact on DD whether it’s me emotionally or restrictive because I have bills to pay. He thinks he deserves the money and can’t see past what he put in. Never once has he looked at the original paperwork and how much stamp duty and legal fees I paid not to mention the few thousand I put in too. Sadly, the only way he would leave us by paying him that amount and living in a one bed bungalow with my parents and DD wasn’t the way forward. 

Anyway, at least I’ve explained my exhaustion if only to myself. 

Willowtree222

I’m off again today. My face has had another reaction this morning and I feel like I’ve not slept all night. Feel awful.

Hoping to get some sleep in again today x