Must try harder!

Baileys_Babe

When my OH stops using something he just puts it down, which I find very frustrating especially if the items home is within reach.
Another frustration is when he put the lid back on the top of a jar but makes no effort to tighten it.

moving_forward

Baileys_Babe said:

When my OH stops using something he just puts it down, which I find very frustrating especially if the items home is within reach.
Another frustration is when he put the lid back on the top of a jar but makes no effort to tighten it.

Mine does the opposite BB he tightens things so blooming hard I almost need a wrench to undo 🤣 He's the same with the handbrake in the car if there's so much of a tiny hump let alone a hill it takes two hands and a lot of swearing to undo!

WinterWarrior

Mine also has a spare room of his own which is surprisingly tidy…mainly because he comes into my office with post, junk Mail, whatever and just dumps it all on my craft desk 😡 A couple of times I have popped it all back on his desk…petty, but satisfying 😁
When I lived alone my house was always lovely and tidy, even with all the pets, but here not so much. Mainly because once I realised I was doing it all and spending so much time on it… I decided not to! I still tend to do it all, but less often and only when I feel like it. 

I hate the tight handbrake thing! It stretches the cable and I gnash my teeth if I allow MrWW to borrow mine and he’s done that. He also leaves random rubbish in my side pocket…I nearly exploded yesterday because there were disposal gloves stuffed there from when he took my car for it’s tyres. I know he did me a favour, but 😡 My car is the one space I can control and keep tidy without someone interfering 🤣

redofromstart

I am also in the 'OH who leaves stuff everywhere' group. Love the sound of the wildlife garden.

beanielou

WinterWarrior said:

beanielou said:

Has a lovely white chocolate & raspberry scone today while out for a coffee @WinterWarrior & thought of you 

That sounds delicious! 

Was most lush 🤩

beanielou

Glad to have no OH. 😂

WinterWarrior

beanielou said:

Glad to have no OH. 😂

I’m a glutton for punishment beanie 🤣

moving_forward

Oh beanie I do miss my own space sometimes

WinterWarrior

moving_forward said:

Oh beanie I do miss my own space sometimes

And the ability to just do certain things without explanation or negotiation. 

I did see something funny yesterday, when I was driving past mr T’s at about 10.30am yesterday a man was waiting to cross the road…with an open can of lager he was sipping from clasped in one hand and a huge bunch of flowers in the other. I said to dog there ‘there’s a story there’ 🤣 The good thing about dog is I have someone to talk to (without looking too bonkers) and she always agrees with me 😬

beanielou

Yes, I am once bitten twice shy & now so set in my ways that I would say I am happy for most of the time. 

The cat is a good listener & like the dog always agrees.